do you ever get scared of what the future holds?

Question

kind of like hoping for all these great things and then you realize it's not happening

Answer 1

I used to, but now I take each day as it comes. Worrying wont change things, action does. If I can take action I do, if I cant I just leave it to fate ...:D

Answer 2

Yes, I think all people at some time or another get a little scared about the future. It is just human nature. I got really scared about my future when I got divorced 6 years ago. But I got through it and looked at it like a whole new start! I am noe remarried and started a whole new mission in life! It is normal to get scared sometimes but you know what they say?....If you have one foot in yesteday and the other in tomorrow...You wee wee all over today!

Answer 3

Yes, spmetimes I get curious, but not scared.I used to be scared but I realized that what IS life without the ups and downs?Just think about it, joy wouldnt be so special if it were no pain, laughter would not feel so good if it were no tears and so on....
But the thing is, if you really want to succeed in life,business and so on don't just hope, IMAGINE and try as you can to make those hopes a reality because hope withou enough effort kinda sucks.

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Answer 4

The future holds what you allow to hold. You are your own destiny. So stop thinking of the future and work on what is here today. I mean stop trying to force something that may happen later and stay positive, I have learned that being positive makes your life positive and positive things to happen

Answer 5

I used to. Then I realized that life is an adventure and I need to MAKE things happen. If something hasn't worked out like you expected think of it like a fork in the road.....you are just off to a different adventure. Don't be scared...enjoy every second!!

Answer 6

I think it's normal to be afraid at times if you're overwhelmed. However , this is also the time you look for help in reprioritizing your goals and realizing you do have choices, you just have to get organized to make them come true.

There are counsellors at churches, mosques, temples, women's shelters or workshops, schools who can help you if you need to go back to school, if you need to find a way to pay all your bills, if you need to find work.

But you have to let go of your fear and pride and be vulnerable and open to help and make sure it is the right kind of help.

Prayer or meditation works too.

My mother used to tell me God never gives us anymore than we can handle, and some years I've had my doubts , but it's worked out and I 've found opportunities I never would have thought of .

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger , friend.

Answer 7

Its not happening now, but, be happy and relish in what you have, think about where you were 10 yrs ago, 5 yrs ago, 1 yr ago. You will definately see that you are not moving down the ladder. It may take you 5 yrs to climb up one rung, but eventually..... you WILL have reached your goal or one that made you forget what you were climbing for. You never know.... you could be climbing and leaving the most important things on the ground.

Answer 8

Never fear what you cannot prevent. People fear death,love, losing a job,all kinds of things. You can have anything you want in life trust me. Growing up I was poorer than poor and I made it. I have love and money. Never be afraid because fear will hold you back.

Answer 9

The future is an unknown. How can you be afraid of what you do not know? I'd be more afraid of what I can see that's coming, especially with the knowledge that everything has its consequences good or bad.

Answer 10

everyone does. it's because you grow up with all these plans and dreams, but they never work out like you thought. you have to do your best, and accept that dreams can change. be happy with what you have (as long as it's good) even if it's not what you always envisioned. longing for a dream that may no longer be realistic will keep you miserable forever.