Girl Troubles - Please Help. Extremely Complicated.?

Question

This girl, I know her through my dad's cousin. My dad is related to my uncle, beacuse they're cousins. So, his kids would be my SECOND cousins. Then, the girl, is related to those same second cousins of mine through thier moms side. So, this puts her as of no relation to me. Anyways, I think she likes me. She, laughs at all the stupid stuff I do, somehow all of her friends know me. Anyways, it's weird because we're cousins with the same people, so it kind of seems she is my cousin, too. Although, really, she's a family friend but still comes to all family parties, etc. One night she stayed over and I was like "Hey, did you know..." and, I didn't finish the sentence, and she comes out of no where and says "...what? that our parents would joke around when we were younger and say, 'we should get these two married?' I was like, "WOAH, how did she guess that" in my head. Then she is like "I don't think about that, I think of you as a cousin." But, I think she tried avoiding the subject HELP

Examples that show she likes me:
1.) One time we were watching TV and I'd slide my foot near her, and her elbow or hand would hit my foot, but she would act like it didn't happen, and she wouldn't move away. She'd stay in the same spot.
2.) All of her friends know me.
3.) When I see her at family parties, it seems as if, we don't really "greet" each other. Like, she's too shy. I don't know, maybe I am, too.
4.) One time at a family party, I hugged one of my cousins because it was a 'long-time-no-see,' and she's like "What. I don't get a hug too?"
5.) She laughs at like... everything I do.
6.) She stares at me, I think, but hard to tell if she really is.

Things she does to show she might not like me:
1.) She avoids subjects about girlfriends/liking people.
2.) When I kind of confronted her about this whole thing, she just ends it by saying "I don't think like that, we're like cousins."
(To that response of hers, I think she just tried avoiding the subject).

ALSO IF I DO CONFRONT HER AND SAY I LIKE HER, WHAT IF SHE DOESN'T LIKE ME? IT WOULD BE EXTREMELY WEIRD, CONSIDERING THE TWO TWISTS OF:
1. THE WAY OUR RELATION IS.
2. THE "JOKING" OF MARRIAGE.

IF SHE SAYS NO, IT WOULD BE SO WEIRD.

Answer 1

If you don't like her than it doesn't matter. But if you do, then tell her because if she likes you too, things should work out. It may be wierd imagining going out with your "cousin" but you're not cousins so thats ok. You seem good for eachother though, if she can finish your sentences and laughs at your jokes.

Answer 2

It does sound like she was trying to avoid the subject, but I think in her shoes I would have done the exact same thing. She's already said that she thinks of you as a cousin, even if you aren't directly related. I wouldn't recommend pushing the issue any further unless she's the one bringing it up. Either way, she doesn't seem to feel the same way about you that you feel about her.

Answer 3

Wow! I think this is an easy one. Confront her and think, make sure your postive you think she likes you and well... tell her it is possible too since your ot cousins anyway. This happen to me but instead i dated my 5th cousin. We still go back in forth. Good Luck!

Answer 4

Why do you know all her friends?
She isn't really related to you, so i suppose its OK?
But i think its kind of weird?

Answer 5

Avoid her as much as possible. Thats all I have to say

Answer 6

it's not that complicated...you are not really related, so if you like her ask her out.

Answer 7

well, if u like her then.. well.. ya, but then if u think about it, we r like,,, all, or mostly related, i mean, u'll be like, my 1,000,000th cusion... if that makes sence...