I just bought her a ring. She's always told me she loved me more than life itself, and That she would always be mine, her heart belonged to me. We gave eachother the world. Then out of no where she leaves me for another man. I feel completely lost dead and hopeless. She is the only woman I have every trully desired to be with. Can love return after one has been let down by the person they saw thier whole life with?
2006-11-11 07:12:27 · 11 answers · asked by Joseph K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, it WILL happen, but only after you've given yourself time to heal. I'm sorry she hurt you so bad, but don't let this stop you from loving, and being loved. Best of luck to you!
2006-11-11 07:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After you get some distance and mature a bit emotionally, you're going to realize that this didn't happen "out of nowhere". Her interest in you and your relationship was droppinng for a while before she left you for somebody else, and the fact that she didn't bother to break up with you and take some time to be single before jumping into another relationship clearly demonstrated she had no integrity or class whatsoever, so you're better off being single.
The trick here is to learn from the experience. After you start feeling happy being single again, you might want to look into finding a men's relationship coach before you wind up in another doomed relationship.
2006-11-11 07:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're the two stupid and obdurate. First do not blame urself soooooo lots. If she became into yous, she would be waiting to come again lower back to you. If she did not come lower back to you, she became into on no account yours. The harm will stay for some extra time as you sense you have been dumped, its ok. you will heal. concentration on different issues like profession, job or make new pals. Is it soo perplexing to get a sparkling suitable individual at the instant? No its not. permit bypass of your harm that's brought about by making use of the sensation of rejection. Its ok chum and its very very commonly used. cheers, Sanjeev
2016-10-17 03:44:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it must be a terribble dissolusionment to love so deeply and completely, only to be left alone and brokenhearted for someone else. we always think it came out of no where, or that it just happened, so we get a false hope of there being a reconciliation with our loved one. but in reality it had been going on for some time, only we didn't see it, maybe we were busy, and ofcourse they never gave us a hint. it is never good to wrap your world around someone u can't trust. yes at first after we are betrayed, we do feel dead. like we are in a bad dream and we hope to god we wake up soon. but really there are other women out there, women u could love if u were willing, but first one must grieve the loss, before going forward. our loved ones tell us alot of things, and we believe everything they say, so that's why we are totally devistated when something like this happens. truth is we have all suffered through broken hearts, been hurt, and feel disolutioned with life, and love. but what is most important is how we respond to the hurt we were unfairly given, how we responnd will be the difference of how well and how quickly we get past it. we have no control over that other person or her thoughts,we may never know why, the first step in getting past this, is to face reality, and get yourself out of denial. bottom line in every relationship, is we need to be able to trust, and feel safe with those we love, and she destroyed your trust, and picked someone else over u. their will be other doors open for u, and another love, got to have hope if nothing else. the pain does diminish after awhile, it is all part of a growing up process we all will have to experience in life, where we don't always get exacly what we want. we complete ourselves in life, we can't count on someone else to complete us, or be the reason we choose to be happy. maybe u should thank your lucky stars u weren't already married to her, or had children to consider, and i do believe all things happen for a reason that we aren't meant to understand. just hang in there, there is life after a broken heart, don't ever wrap yourself up with a person u can't trust.
2006-11-11 11:36:20 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life goes on, it is not the end of the world. Stand up and be alive again. I am sure you will soon be meeting a wonderful girl who will love you as you love her.
2006-11-11 07:25:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that. It's tough, I know. But it certainly is possible to pick up the pieces, and move on. It just may take a while.
2006-11-11 07:19:49 · answer #6 · answered by oceansoflight777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you will love again... just b happy u didnt marry her... cuz if it would happend before u got married.. it woulda happend after u all got married!! she saved u some trouble... once u find "the one" you will want to thank her!!
good luck!
2006-11-11 07:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by hopelessly_in_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can and will find love again but most likely when you are not looking it will take time to trust again
2006-11-11 07:21:38 · answer #8 · answered by kelly r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will love again.
2006-11-11 07:15:18 · answer #9 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question !! let me know how you make out
2006-11-11 09:44:07 · answer #10 · answered by dreamweaver021557 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋