I am in 7th grade and my bf is in 8th grade. We hang out together, with each others families. he is an only child, and i have 3 siblings. well, he has come over to my house ONCE. all we did was watch movies. i've been out with him 2 times to dinner (nothing fancy) and the movies. He/his parents paid for me all 3 times! i tried to pay 4 my own movie ticket, but she (mom) said it was fine. I feel kinda guilty?? should i?
2006-11-11 06:40:27 · 10 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Are they just avoiding awkwardness though???
2006-11-11 07:09:13 · update #1
Not at all. They are paying because they like you, and you make their son happy. Just don't always expect them to pay for everything, and you'll be fine.
2006-11-11 06:43:50 · answer #1 · answered by Eric B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its okay to feel guilty but you shouldn't have to. If you offer to pay for your own and they say that they'll pay for it than don't carry around the guilt. If you feel uncomfortable you should talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you're feeling. Maybe the next time you will be able to pay for your own ticket. This way it takes the guilt off you and you can have a strong relationship. If they still pay for your ticket don't feel guilty. Its a sign that they like you and accept you.
2006-11-11 15:00:31 · answer #2 · answered by dartzallmine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah . If their offering, dont feel bad on taking up the offer. Just make sure that you let them know that you are able to pay for a movie ticket or dinner.iIf ur not able 2 pay talk 2 ur bf when you are alone about it. u shouldnt need 2 keep secrets in a good relationship. He should understand!
HOPE THAT HELPS!
2006-11-11 14:47:22 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt feel guilty. My mom ALWAYS says "Offer to pay but if they insist on paying thats ok." You didnt do anything wrong. After all...they did offer.
2006-11-11 17:17:27 · answer #4 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no . of course not . men have been paying to take woman out for years . hes still a kid theres nothing wrong with the parent paying for their sons date if its in their budget . unless he is demanding them to do it and being a spoiled brat.
sounds like his parents are doing a good job raising him . his parents probley wouldnt do it if they didnt want to .they must approve of you .
just be polite ,show your appreciation and thank them for the night.
2006-11-11 15:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by porcelain65711 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello , dont be guilty , they are be just nice with you.
I think they like you . smile :D
take care.
2006-11-11 14:43:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women's life is giving giving giving if you do it right. That means Somebody has to give to you. Let them
2006-11-11 14:45:38 · answer #7 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heavens no, you offered, and his mom said no. All is good.
2006-11-11 14:46:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, if they wanna spend their money let them!
just tell them to stop if you contiune to feel uncomfortable.
2006-11-11 14:43:28 · answer #9 · answered by amber h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, he should maybe, but not you.
2006-11-11 14:44:17 · answer #10 · answered by Angry Insightful Black 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋