Why am I so posessive?

Question

I have this guy friend who I really like. Problem is, nobody knows (I hope) I like him, and there's time when some of his other girl friends are totally flirting with him, and it makes me so jealous. Like the other day, this girl came up to him and was like, "Oh, I still have your jacket," and was like batting her eyes at him. I was so jealous!!! I don't want to be jealous because he's only my friend, it's not like we were going out or anything, but I can't seem to help it. What should I do?

Answer 1

It's normal. I'm the same way with a guy friend I like (except he knows I like him). You can't help but feel that way. It's human nature. People are naturally territorial. You'll eventually get over it.

Answer 2

Try to just talk to him and tell him how you feel about him being a big flirt. OR you could get a boyfriend who is totally loyal and loveing and obsessed with you.

Answer 3

Hello , I know what you are going thought, am in that position.

I like my friend and she have boyfriend.


maybe you friend know , and dont sayed anything about.

every one can notice when someone like that person. how one look to that person. you can not stop looking at the person.

The only thing you can do , talk to your friend , explain what you feel about him, be silence be just him friend. dont be friend , it that hurt you not being with him as you wish.


I planning to open my hear to my friend, I will not do , she have bf , I dont want to lose our friendship.

none can tell you , only yoy know what is the best choice to do.

I wish you luck in whate you choose to do.

take care .
bye

Answer 4

Maybe try to focus your mind on something else. Or move on to a new guy. Or EVEN try to make HIM jealous!! l0l

Answer 5

You need to either make your move or move on .