I'm really angry at one of my friends. She's been using me a lot lately, because she just broke up with her boyfriend and he's having fun without her. They just got back together two days ago, and now she won't even talk to me anymore. She'd been my best friend for years before they started dating, but as soon as they did, she ditched me to be with him all the time. I'm really angry with her, but I don't know how to tell her. What can I do?
2006-11-11 06:24:33 · 7 answers · asked by Krissy_Baby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ouch.......I would recommend definitely trying to talk to her. Alot of the times boys/girls come in the way of people's friendships. I think you just need to talk to her and tell her how you feel....hopefully you two can work things out....if not maybe you'd be better off not having her as a friend....good luck to ya
2006-11-11 06:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by kweenb2327 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is tell her. Otherwise shell never know how much she upset you. Just say something like "We were friends before you started dating him. After that you wouldnt even talk to me & that bothers me. When you guys broke up you started talking to me again. Now that you 2 are back together you ignore me. It makes me really mad. Why are you acting lke this?" See what she says. She may deny it so get ready for it. She may say shes sorry.
2006-11-11 17:29:18 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't stop being friends with her, she doesn't realize what she is doing angers you. Talk to her about your feelings and make sure you address all the issues and don't leave any out. We tend to embellish all our time with a man and forget who we are as a individual. It is not her fault, she is sick/happy in love. Just be there for her, because when trouble calls again she will need you once again. Just be sure to discuss your feelings and how much she hurt you. If she shits on you when you are trying to talk to her, then perhaps she doesn't value your friendship as much as you do. I am sorry for you, but again she is probably not aware of what she is doing to you.
Hope this helps.
2006-11-11 14:30:56 · answer #3 · answered by OMG I thought I saw A Kitty Kat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that and it sucks...From personal experience let it go and when things don't work out between them she'll be calling you and then just tell how how you feel. If you go off on her now it will just make things worse plus you don't want to stoop to her level of being a "best friends" Best of luck
2006-11-11 14:50:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you tell your friend your angy with her..she mite feel threatened. maybe you shouldnt put all your anger toward her...friends have to be there when you really need them. her prioritys sound like she needs more attention from guys. be honest with her though but not evil. ask her when she isnt busy to call you sometime to hang out. get a pizza or whatever..talk about things ect.. hopefully she'll realise that her true friends are able to give her stength when she falls. vis versa.
2006-11-11 14:36:34 · answer #5 · answered by skimad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh daymn. That sux.
Well, that happened to me once, but it wasn't about gf or bf stuff.
He was making friends, then he started to stick with them instead of us. Then, what I did was.... well... I don't really remember what I did. But he's with us again.
Make her think about it. Send her a text message or call her. Make her think about what you feel, or somethin like that. Then u and yer BFF (best friend forever) will be BFFs agen.
2006-11-11 14:30:36 · answer #6 · answered by King Kee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tray to chech up with her,tell her you'r concern's if she dosent do something then mabey you shold re thank the friend ship. some time's we all lose time wen we are looking for mr right. keep the fath becuse she will need you sooner or later...
2006-11-11 14:31:41 · answer #7 · answered by sosweetman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋