there is a guy i really love , he loves me too but all the pple around us are opposing us, they come to me n **** talk behind him and say things like : he doesnt deserve U dont be with him,( esp my own family i really trust him but sometimes pple force me to change my mind! anyway, i had a dream last night n in that dream i was in the hospital with all those poeple around me n he was there as well, all of us were sick n we were sitting in a dark room , all the people used to come to me crying n asking me to kill him because he was hurting n killing them!! the only one who he didnt want to kill was me and i could realise that he loved me ( in my dream the faces werent clear but i could recognize him at the end) so i just did something i never wanted to do just for people!!at the end i killed him in my dream and after that pple were free to come out of hospital and enjoy themselves!!! i could see how sad i was. i was crying in my dream n when i woke up i could feel the tears!!Any Ideas ?
2006-11-11 05:58:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Dreams are often a your minds way to get you to recognize subconscious fears. I believe it can also be a hint towards future events. I'm not saying that your boyfrind is destined to kill your freinds and family but your dream suggests that its possible that you continued relationship with this man could kill your relationships with others important to your life. You need to decide if he is worth it in the long run or if there is something you can do that can repair the bad reputation and relationship he has with them. You were sad that you had to kill him, but did you feel it was something you had to do for the greater good or because you were pressured? Only you can really tell what the dream meant, but I suggest you consider it a warning for trouble to come.
A word of warning, however, where there is smoke there is fire. If "everyone" says he is no good or not good enough for you there has to be a reason. Are you bad mouthing your boyfriend one day and then back in love the next. You may have gotten over whatever made you mad at your bf but your friends haven't and they still remember all the things you've said about him and base their opinions of him on that info. They could also know some facts about your boyfriend that they haven't shared with you. Guys have an unwritten unity that when another guy is doing dirt, cheating, abusive etc, they won't tell his girl. They will hint that you could do better or he is not good enough. They usually won't tell you what he did straight out. Also, slimey boyfriends frequently use the "they are all against us and hating on our love" line to get you to disregard the facts you are told. They also use the "he/she just said that cause he/she wants you/me." You don't wanted you friends/family to write you off in disgust for how you allow him to treat you.
2006-11-11 06:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by WriterChic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe dreams really tell us anymore than we already know. I think this dream may just reflect that you are afraid people are right about him, and how unhappy that would make you. If you would have mentioned WHY they say you shouldn't be with him, then I might be able to help you more. Like if they all think you shouldn't be with him because he cheated on you......well, they're probably right! On the other hand, if they think you shouldn't be with him because he's of another religion or ethnicity, f@#$ them, that doesn't determine how good of a person he is.
2006-11-11 06:10:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have some sort of rejection in life and dream of killing or being killed. That shows deep guilty conscience and insecurity in your end.
In your case, you were forced to kill him due to pressure and stress from friends and family. This symbolizes your helpless conscience. You vent this all out in dream
2006-11-11 06:08:45 · answer #3 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure.. I had a dream previously wherein I had deja vu concerning a similar dream. in the dream I unexpectedly felt like I had dreamed it previously and then I grew to grow to be conscious i grew to become into dreaming which grew to become into much greater insane! I nonetheless went in the path of the dream yet I knew each and every thing that grew to become into going to take place previously it did because of the fact i'd desire to bear in innovations dreaming it previously.. then i presumed I woke up yet I wasn't wide awake incredibly i grew to become into nonetheless snoozing, I only stopped being conscious.. and that i dreamed that i grew to become into thinking approximately my dream deja vu, and targets interior targets and what i could do as quickly as I woke up.. then i in my opinion woke up and that i grew to become into perplexed... lol
2016-10-21 22:07:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-11 12:36:36 · answer #5 · answered by Spirita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't feel bad that people are making fun of u and just be friends until u want to.
2006-11-11 06:08:11 · answer #6 · answered by IHaveAQuestion. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋