i broke up with him because i thought i liked someone else but i thought for along time and realized that i love my ex but he says its ok that i broke up with him because he needs to focus on his grades anyways. but he still says he cares about me. what should i do?
2006-11-11 05:35:22 · 3 answers · asked by renee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, you need to wait a while. If you start going to him with this now like you're trying to get him back, you're going to get the rep of a total game player, and you will be alienated from others.
You broke it off because you thought you liked someone else, you deserve to rest with your decision for a while; you're giving him absolutely no respect, and frankly, he'd be a nut for taking you back quickly. I mean, seriously, what is he a place holder for you until you decide you like someone else?
Take time off, sort out your feelings, then in about 4 or 5 months, act on them. But if you do the same thing to the same guy later down the road, that's going to follow you for a long time, you'll lose friends and respect.
2006-11-11 05:42:15 · answer #1 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should back up it was your bad in the first place. Wait for him to come to you!
2006-11-11 13:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by lil_mama69smokie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do nothing. You're allowed to care about someone and let them be.
2006-11-11 13:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋