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this mite sound crazy but first of 26weeks pregnant with twins now to the crazy part i had sex with my boyfriend 5times lastnight and today all i want to do is cry i just feel down for some reason i no all throu my pregnancy ive been sick alot sometimes i have a hard time walking ive been to the doctor 6times this month if that that tells you anything thats just this month thats how bad this pregnancy has been for me i've had 4 other kids and ive never went throu all of this befor the crying being sick all the time and i dont no what to do

2006-11-11 05:34:42 · 6 answers · asked by patricia bateman 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

6 answers

Wow, try some punctuation, capitalization and grammar when you ask questions, I don't even think you have a question in there.

2006-11-11 05:41:03 · answer #1 · answered by Stacy 4 · 1 0

Was the sex supposed to make you feel better?

It sounds like you're battling a lot of depression with this pregnancy... iam suprised your doctor hasnt been able to prescribe something for you to help with it.

each pregnancy is different, you have to treat it like its own thing.

Treating the constant blues can be as simple as getting up and moving in the day light. Our hormones are sythesized a great deal during the day and by our daily activities, you can help get your system working better by moving around. Another GREAT way to help with all sorts of depression (especially seasonal) is to spend as much extra time in the sun, or artificial sun as you can.

Also, being in public and around other people can help a lot too.

This might be a time to call in gramma and grampa for the other kids, and see to it that you're getting enough rest and alone time.

Its also very important to eat a wide variety of colorful fruits and veggies. These help provide your body with the nutrients it needs to help regulate your chemicals and hormones.

Studies have found that depression is caused by imblanced chemicals, and those same studies have shown that people who get a little extra physical activity each day have less problems with depression.

Its hard to stay active when you're pregnant, especially with twins, and especially this time of year. You might want to consider a tread mill, or better yet, a pool membership to the Y or some other local recreation center. The goal isnt fitness... its simply movement. Dont stress yourself over trying to keep a routine or number of minutes.

Just spend some extra time moving, so long as your doctor will allow you. The movement will also help your sore muscles and tendons, and your stiff hips.

26 weeks makes you more than half way there. You'll make it momma.

2006-11-11 05:47:04 · answer #2 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0 0

I have twins too. They are 3 now but I remember one day back when I was pretty far along...I took my basset hound out for a walk before I had to go to work & he wouldn't go poo right away so I yelled at him. When I got back to the house I started crying & I cried for 9 hours that day!!! I even went to see my doctor that day to find out what was wrong with me b/c I could NOT stop crying & they told me that it was just hormones. Honey, you are pregnant! You have all sorts of things going on in your body right now. This in not like any other pregnancy you have had or ever will have. Twins are definitely something unique!!!
It will pass...trust me. BUT my doctor did tell me when I had my little episode that if I didn't stop in 2 days they were going to put me on anti-depressants which I did not end up needing. It could be an option if you continue to feel like this.
I also had a really bad day 3 days after they were born--another EXTREME hormone surge. I cried/screamed/had a absolute nerve breakdown in front of my in-laws...so be prepared for another one, possibly. It was just another flair up in my body & it sent me out of my mind for about a half day.
I've always felt like I was a somewhat stable person but I can tell you that carrying my girls & that whole pregnancy experience showed me the other side of crazy. ha!ha!!!
But I can laugh about it now & you will too...someday.
I can't help with the sick thing...I was just very swollen when I was pregnant. It does hurt to walk & sit & sleep.
You are half way there! STAY STRONG!!
Once you see those TWO gorgeous faces it will all be well worth it.
Consider yourself blessed that you are having twins. :) :)

I had the girls with me in a store when they were babies & an old man came up to me & said that "God would not have given you twins if He was not sure you could handle it."

So good luck, go take a bath, relax, watch a sappy movie so you have something to cry about at least! :)

2006-11-11 05:52:17 · answer #3 · answered by flmomfl 2 · 0 0

well you are having twins and it can be harder because you have double the hormones and you just have to relax try not to have sex so much maybe just 2 times a night or even less because you should know that with twins you have a very high chance of preterm labor and sex can trigger that and for the sickness that is totally normal just try to eat the food that you crave and quench all your carvings it really helps i don't know if it is mental of what but when you have what you want you feel better


Good Luck

2006-11-11 05:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by kissesxoxo8882 3 · 0 0

First, go back to second grade and learn how to capitalize and punctuate your sentences. Secondly, try seeing a therapist; sounds like you're depressed. And I don't know what the point of mentioning the fact that you had sex with your boyfriend five times last night was.

2006-11-11 05:44:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

What does that have to do with having sex 5 times? What is your question?

2006-11-11 05:40:11 · answer #6 · answered by RearFace@18mo. 6 · 2 0

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