After I left him 7 months ago, he had someone else move in shortly after I left (about 2 months later). now it seems he wishes to "marry" this person! We were together 6 years. Thanks for your input.
2006-11-11 05:04:16 · 7 answers · asked by Jay Jay 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You were never right, it is that simple, get over the betrayal, and move on
2006-11-11 05:08:37 · answer #1 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time. Focus on you -- take up a new hobby, join a gym, read, take a class, travel, and do something progressive. In the process you might make new friends, develop new skills, and grow as a person. In the process, maybe you can get some counseling to figure out why you stayed with a man for 6 years who was not nice to you?
2006-11-12 08:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetness2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel because I went through a similar situation -- except it took me yrs (I am not kidding) to really come to terms with what happened.
You feel the way you do because you are kind and honest -- you really loved this person and cannot understand why someone can hurt you so much, someone who once professed to love you. I think you need to recognize that there will always be something about your husband/boyfriend that you don't know about. What really goes on in their heads cannot really be known unless they tell you. People change and the process is not always obvious.
Good luck!
2006-11-11 05:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by Lady WK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you get over him? You will get over him. There is no "can't" about it. You just have to grieve, think about what you learned from the experience, then learn to be happy being single again, and then you will have moved on.
I worry more about him since he plans on marrying somebody so soon after a divorce. Sounds like he is getting married to somebody he met on a rebound to avoid being alone, and that rarely turns out to be pleasant.
2006-11-11 05:15:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl... you need to find someone or something to take your mind off that JERK!! Obviously he was dating this person before you two broke up. Take it as a lessonlearned and move on. Especially since he was not good to you.
2006-11-11 05:11:35 · answer #5 · answered by kdbnsc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you seen other people? ill bet if you find someone it will take your mind off him. i know a girl like this. she keeps breaking up and when he tries to move on she does a 180 and gets him back. i call her psycho. don't be her! move on, be happy for him, and have some Patience, you'll find someone. remember the times he treated you bad.
2006-11-11 05:10:51 · answer #6 · answered by donald k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're hurt that he could replace you so soon. Give yourself some time. You're in pain. It will pass. You'll be all right.
2006-11-11 05:10:13 · answer #7 · answered by RockwallCat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋