should i do it? help me please?

Question

ive been offerd a contract with nuts magazine ( a lads mag) and i dont know if i should take it or not. my boyfriend seems ok with it. its just another way for him to see my chest. what do you think? should i sign the contract

Answer 1

Definitely ! I feel a girl should always use her sexuality to make money, whichever way she is comfortable with - why - because it won't last - when you get old - very few people will want to pay to see your breasts if any - but why you are young and vibrant - go for it - especially if your boyfriend is broadminded enought to let you go a head - show's he's got a brain and is mature. You will make a lot or people happy who find it difficult to get girlfriends etc.,

Anyone who says don't, especially if they are female is just jealous !

Answer 2

Marilyn Monroe posed nude early in her career - she needed the money. When she became famous and the photo was published, she was very pragmatic about it. So should you be.

If they are paying really well, and you need the money, then once you have read the contract carefully and are happy with it - go for it.

But if you can get by without the money, then do. It's not a great career move. Bear in mind, you will have no control over who will see it. Some kind soul will feel it their duty to show the magazine to your parents, your boyfriends parents, your gran, the kids you were at school with, your neighbours, your colleagues, so make sure you can live with this before accepting.

Answer 3

Really think about if this is something you want to do. I'm sure your boyfriend is ok with it, he'll have something to brag about. But what if your dad, or uncle, or brother happens to see the magazine; how would you feel? Also, be prepared that if guys you know see it, they'll probably show it off to guys they know etc. Most of the attention you recieve from doing this might be positive, but some will be negative. Are you ok with that? Are you ready to be recognized everywhere you go- and recognized as that girl who showed her goodies in Nuts magazine? If you're trying to establish a career in that industry, then go for it, but if not, think it over first, beause it could make changes to you life that aren't good.
Good luck! Oh, and congrats on getting the offer!

Answer 4

At the end of the day no one can decide this but you - but id like to offer some points to consider:

- What do you want to do in the future? Is this something that might come back to haunt you one day?

- Is your boyfriend really that supportive - maybe thinks its fine now but what about when its published and he realises that other guys will be getting off on your pictures? Will he be ok with it then?

- Are you confident enough to deal with any attention both wanted & unwanted that this might bring?

Whilst yes people do get famous over posing for such mags, remember everything comes at a price.

Answer 5

Only do this if you think you'll make a career out of this kind of photography. Once the photos have been taken, they might end up anywhere.. highest bidder etc. Have a good think about it first and don't let anyone pressure you into doing these Lads mag pictures.

Answer 6

What do you feel when somebody sees you?
Do you like it. I think there are some people who like that.
If you do that for money, there's no reason to do that but if you feel comfortable with that do it.
I believe Nature is the most beautiful thing in this world and your body is a miracle of Nature, not only your but everyone's body.
If you feel you are able to do that and feel good, do it because you know you are a beautiful person and will feel OK after doing that.
If you think you are not ready and think you will feel uncomfortable doing that, don't do it.
Take the best option and you only have the answer.
:) Good Luck

Answer 7

Why are you asking us?
If you are happy and the people that matter to you are cool with what you want to do, go ahead. I'm talking about life in general not just a pic in a mag. GO WITH YOUR GUT INSTINCT that is why we have an "instinct" so we can judge if something is right for us!

Answer 8

Why not. I presume you have had some photos taken with your tats out for them to offer you a contract in the first place? And your boyfriend has seen them I presume. If you've done it before, what's the problem?

I wouldn't do it personally. I've got big boobies but they're mine not some letchy bloke in a grotty toilet getting his jollies. Each to their own though.

Answer 9

You don't mention your age. My first concern is.... are you of legal age?

After that, you want to consider what you are planning to do with the rest of your life...... are you even remotely considering any type of career where it would be an embarrassment if these pictures were to be "discovered" by the media or a competitor?.... maybe in 1-5 years?......... how about in 10 years?............. if you have kids, what will you tell them about this episode of your life?........... do you think your parents and close circle of friends (other than the boobie obsessed bf) would approve of this and encourage you?

You gotta consider all the long-term ramifications too - so many gals have done this type of thing for the fame, glamour or money, .... and regretted it later.

Good luck on whichever you choose - you will be living with this decision the rest of your life.

Answer 10

Nooooooooooooooo