Is it the reality that it is not enough for a guy to be good and love the woman he wants. He needs to learn how to get her and may be he needs to shed off his good boy nature and rather be naughty towards her? There are even books which suggests about this... and what do you think? There will be no place for real hearts, only those learned robots who tickles would be the winner? Is successful love (leading to love making) most of the time a designed mechanical game instead of a natural?
2006-11-11 04:20:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think that you have to become a robot or be naive. I think that the books you are referring to are just tools for the people who need ideas on how to keep their love life interesting. My husband is a horrible lover, and I would love for it to come natural for him but it doesn't. It sounds like you are a genuine lover and any woman would really love to be with someone like that! Not everyone likes to play games.
2006-11-11 04:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by serendipity_siren 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is not the case. When a woman makes love to the person she loves, it is more meaningful than doing it for lust. But of course, both lovers should be sensitive enough to learn what makes the other happy and enjoy the act. It should be pleasurable for both, They should be honest with each other.
2006-11-11 12:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you find the right woman, she won't play games. Sex isn't about mechanics. It's about expression. If you love someone you can be honest about how you feel and what you want in bed.
2006-11-11 12:59:34 · answer #3 · answered by Beth T 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋