ok my problem is that i have these friends that are mad at me and they are bulling me. They are mad at me because i kinda started a rumor by accident and know all my friends hate me and i really want them to forgive me what should i do. Everyday i end up crying because of them..
2006-11-11 04:07:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
My 16 yr old daughter had this happen to a friend of hers and she was READY to accept the girls apology~ I told her that if they aren't ready to be friends again...screw them! There are other people to be friends with...It was an accident...GEE! I guess they've NEVER done a thing wrong in their lives!!! Do you REALLY want friends that bully people and treat people like that?! I'd look for new friends...ones that will accept anything said or done...without the problems....
2006-11-11 04:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know its hard, but I think that you should try and find new friends, you should not let them get to you so deeply and make you cry at the end of the day, you made your mistake, if you try to talk to them and make them understand it was a mistake, and they forgive you in the end, then it is all OK, but if they dont understand you, then its time to move on. Good luck!!!
2006-11-11 04:17:25 · answer #2 · answered by BabyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should be crying because of them don't put up with them tell them you don't care if they are mad and stay mad im sorry I had friends like this before and I told them to stay mad and don't let them bully you.I use to end up crying over my friends too but I stopped it.
2006-11-11 04:42:33 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Natasha♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and apologize. Don't try to make excuses just admit that you were wrong and won't hurt anyone's feelings again by starting rumors. Take responsibility and remember no one likes a liar so go make it right. If they refuse to except your apology then they are not your true friends.
2006-11-11 04:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by Jodie B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girlllllll how stupid can u be starting a rumor, that childs play be a bit mature and if u cry bcuse of them ignoring u is ur fault,okkkkkkkkk listen, for them to forgive u holdddd up what type of rumor it was and from there i could help you.
2006-11-11 06:45:20 · answer #5 · answered by x_x_andre_x_x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried apologizing and telling them that you didn't mean to spread the rumor? If they won't listen to you and they won't forgive you then they prolly aren't true friends anyways. Good Luck.
2006-11-11 04:12:14 · answer #6 · answered by Lovin' My Hubby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And tough up. No offense but only six year olds come home crying like babies when someone makes fun of them. Get over it. Pray. Whatever you do, don't let them take over you. How old are you anyhow? You seem like your 11!!!!
2006-11-11 04:12:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a suggestion. maybe you should talk to them about this? i'm sure it'd be very uncomfortable talking to them in the first place, but why not write them a note? hopefully you can get your thoughts expressed on there and apologize for the stupid thing you did. good luck
2006-11-11 04:53:49 · answer #8 · answered by jtawsgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to them and explaining the situation and appologizing to them....Dont get Mary to go tell Ann that you are sorry..DO IT YOURSELF and if nothing else talk to an adult figure in your school if thats where you are for some confrontation with them.
2006-11-11 04:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by rkonkin226 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit with them some day, and seriously describe what happens ... and at the end tell them " What if this happened to you instead of me , would you be OK with me treating you this way ? "
2006-11-11 04:11:37 · answer #10 · answered by Luay14 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋