when i go to a club, the white girls are so friendly and they be all over me and stuff but the sistas always got a attitude.
why do my own race not like me?
2006-11-11 03:18:59 · 20 answers · asked by kwon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i'm not sayin this is true for all black women, but where i live, white women except you for who you are and the black women want you for what you can give them. you have to be pretty much perfect for them to even date you.
2006-11-11 04:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The club is not an ideal place to meet women. Maybe you should try looking somewhere else. Maybe a library, church, football/basketball game. If it is your perception that the Black Women are giving you attitude maybe its just all in your presentation. Do you act differently around the white women? Don't give up on Black women yet unless you just prefer to date white women. The choice is up to you. GOOD LUCK
2006-11-11 11:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by machelle6691 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if I was looking for a good relationship
A) I wouldn't go to a club to find a nice girl.
B) I wouldn't want a girl who justs jumps all over the first guy she meets. Who else is she jumping on?
You can date any race you want, but at least give credit to the girls who are a little more choosy than just any guy.
2006-11-11 11:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because your Sistas hang with you all the time, or they hang with other Sistas, so you're nothing new to them. The white girls aren't like you, so they find you interesting because you're different from them.
2006-11-11 11:24:40 · answer #4 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason the sistas have an attitude is because black men are choosing o be with white gurls more than them. It makes the sista mad. I am mixed so I like black men over white men, sorry. I like men of color because most of them are better looking. Most black men ,(from my own experience), treat woman better. I haven't had any other men treat me as well. Some woman like black men becuse they take care of their body better, like working out and how they dress. Her is one of the main reasons woman like black men, (personal experience), bigger ***** and beter in bed.
2006-11-11 11:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by monar_sharyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because we sistas prefer to be approached from a man instead of being all over the men we meet.you are not a phenomena to us or some kind of specialty toy that we find amusing when ever we run into a brotha.believe me we sists love our men,we respect you as men so strong and fine,but we will not fall all over you guys like groupies as soon as you walk into a club.
2006-11-11 11:27:52 · answer #6 · answered by punkin 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Black men are historically 'off limits' to white women. White women see the media image of the black man and desire it (against their own better judgment) and see you as forbidden fruit. Black women see you as the stereotypical lazy black man, whom they have seen standing on the corner day after day. White women don't really get to see that image, as much as they see the 'well-to-do thug' image.
2006-11-11 11:27:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that's it, white girls are in general more friendly and less bitchy we are just different. They may like you just have to much of a stuck up attitude to let you know.
2006-11-11 11:24:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, yeah. Learn English!
2006-11-11 11:26:24 · answer #9 · answered by ♫ ∫aoli 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh-h, the white ones want you as a trophy?
And you shouldn't be messing with your sisters anyway, there's a law against that. LOL
2006-11-11 11:24:33 · answer #10 · answered by Lucianna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋