how do you tell your mate that he is not lasting long enough in the bedroom.?

Answer 1

Talk to him and discuss options to getting you pleasured to. Have him do some fore play with you or you may try yourself before you guys start. Get warmed up and be half there before he starts. He can try creams to make his penis less sensitive or do it more often. Try not to be so sexy girl.

Answer 2

Well, if you want to devestate him, just tell him. However, if you love him and are just hoping to improve your love life, techniques can be learned where he can develop some stamina. The good news is, if you two are very open and loving, these techniques are usually learned in tandem, so you two can actually have some fun while he's learning to give you more fun. That way, you can slowly bring him around to where you need him to be without just coming right out and telling him he's not cutting the mustard. If what you two are learning is enjoyable to him, then he's going to actually like the idea of giving you a better level of satisfaction.

Just go to any bookstore that has books on sexual techniques and your bound to find one that deals with whatever specific problem he is having. I would be careful to choose a book that is more about the relationship and less about the mechanics, though.

Answer 3

You should be able to tell him everything and anything.
You dont want to be de meaning about it or crush his feelings. I think it can be as simple as extending the pleasure. Go for longer forplay and tempt and control. Use body language to encourage and pull away when you think he's at that point. use your voice with moans or sound of encouragement , the kind that let him know you need more. He should be able to get the hint.

Answer 4

Ouch! That is a tough one.
It sounds like he isn't getting the job done for YOU!
He may be just looking after himself if you are not feeling satisfied.
I would just come out and say it. He has to know.
Never 'fake it' that it is good, you are just ripping yourself off.
It may hurt his feeling but maybe he doesn't know what to do and you will have to teach him. Maybe he isn't getting it enough and can't hang on.
It sounds like you need to do some serious communicating!!!!!

Answer 5

If it is just during intercourse - then do something different. The more he does it - he will learn how to control it. I am lucky my husband was well experienced by the time we got married, but apparently it takes time.

Just don't criticize him - then he won't even be able to do it in fear that he can't please you. Try different things at least you care enough to work through it - good luck!!

Answer 6

How does your mate tell you if you're so frigid in bed room even he do more than one hour with you? (If it's true............) Do you think he will tell you about that? How much hurt that will you get of if he tell you.

So, analogue with this question. I think you know the best answer.

Answer 7

start goin on top nd jst carryin on until u r finished, he shud get da picture afta havin 2 sit dere watchin u bounce away. if this dusnt work then jst start bein rly into long sensual sessions nd he shud do his best to improve. if none of these work then im single lol

Answer 8

this is very sensitive question for men. first of all dont ask him this at all if he feel guilty he wont recover at all. now this is curable problem. and best exercise is foreplay. the longer your foreplay the better his time. and mixed some positions during the intercourse. this will also increase some time.
have fun.

Answer 9

Just tell him/her. If your mate knows you and wants to please you then you must be able to talk about this. But start off by turning it around and ask your mate what would please them. By doing this you must also be able to meet them half way with your request of one another!

Answer 10

Just explain that if he doesn't care enough to work on it with you, you may have to bring in another shift.