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2006-11-11 02:41:05 · 15 answers · asked by sudha m 1 in Social Science Psychology

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BE FRIEND OF PERSON LIKE YOU. DO GOOD THINGS DO NOT CHEAT OTHERS. RESPECT ELDER YOU WILL LOSE ALL YOUR INFERIOR COMPLEX.

2006-11-11 20:15:51 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1 0

Basically Inferiority complex stems from low sef -esteem / lack of confidence.......low self image etc. And this could be due to our past experiences, with people and situations. To overcome
this, has to be a gradual process .........where you start building your positive self image.........focus on what your are good at and try to improve what your think is not right. You have to say this to your self each day ..........I CAN DO IT, I WILL DO IT/ I AM CAPABLE. It is also important to undertsand what kind of inferiority complex, is it to do with appearance/ your grades in school/ college. And accordingly deal with it... So, start with positive fillers for your self............like it is good day.........I am going to do this / achieve a goal. Work towards it, without letting the feeling of failure control you. All of us are afraid to face failure and accept it.........so think of an extreme of what can happen if you don't achieve and also another extreme if you do....succeed. I am sure you will find this very exciting and worth giving it a try ......coz then you are not afraid of the unknown as unknown is now known to you...........So, all the best

2006-11-11 22:52:46 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_suzi31 1 · 0 0

inferiority complex is a common feeling. even a person who excels in many areas may be prone to inferior complex in the area he is not accustomed to much.
to over come this complex , one can find the things he loves to do or he is much interested in and can develop more in it.so he gains confidence.confidence is an enemy of inferiority complex.
when one suffers from this its better comparisons with others are not much made.bse all of us are not blessed with the same talent.at the same time God is never partial to leave anyone of us without talents.so finding our talents and making more out of them is the best way to overcome inferiority complex.

2006-11-11 15:05:07 · answer #3 · answered by tweety 1 · 1 0

From my own life experiences, it seems people with inferiority complexes are sensitive people who have not been praised enough as a child. They're never told of their good traits and so they don't believe they have any. They need to build their self confidence as an adult which isn't always an easy undertaking. The best way to do this is through psychotherapy. For an exercise, write down five good things about yourself. If you are having an extremely hard time, you lack self confidence. If you named things like I have nice toenails, again, still a problem. Keep a list of all the good things about yourself, add to it when someone compliments or praises you, add to it when you do something you feel proud of. As you build your list, you will be building your self esteem. Best of luck.

2006-11-11 11:04:33 · answer #4 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0 0

Count the blessings that you have. Like, you are normal - without any physical deformity. If you notice there are deformed people but it does not deter them to achieve success and be confident, how much more for you. You have a loving heart . You have a brain. why feel inferior? We all are made from dust and all will be dust again when we die. We are equals, so why feel inferior? Each of us has our own positive traits but nobody is perfect. Go out there and circulate. You'll discover , everyone has his own weakness and there is no need to feel inferior. Good luck.

2006-11-12 00:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0 0

Focus on what's good and right, rather than what's bad and wrong. Realize that there are others that are worse off than you. Granted, there are some that are better off, but many who are worse off. Also, why do you care much about impressing others that you don't know, don't care about, and will never see again?

Turn your attention onto other people. Observe all the ways they strive to be noticed, admired, appreciated, and recognized. compliment them and make their day. It will feel good inside for you. We all want the same things. We just have different ways of obtaining them. You don't get internal validation by 'besting' others. You get validation by giving it to other people, and it always comes back to you.

You have to give others what you want for yourself (from them. Empathy is the singlemost attractive human quality, so practice putting yourself in the shoes of other people.

Acknowledge others, notice them, praise them, admire them, appreciate them, give them recognition for their efforts and their redeeming qualities.

Learn how to break the ice, build rapport, and draw people out of their shells. Those are skills that are learned, and can only be learned when you're not worrying about yourself all the time.

That, is how you overcome your feelings of inferiority.

2006-11-11 11:13:39 · answer #6 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0 0

First thing to find is what is the cause of IC. Whether you think you not good at studies, or you feel you dont look good, etc. Believe you are the best. No one can be good at everything. So focus on the best What is the self-image you carry about yourself? Always feel good about yourself. Believe that you carry lot of qualities that could take you to success, make others like you, help you make relationship.

2006-11-15 10:16:01 · answer #7 · answered by vlikeme 2 · 0 0

know what makes you inferior,,
see that reason,, compare it to you.. know your strenghts and weaknesses, now ask yourself..
what is it in you that is so inferior to others?
make use of your strenght, share and let others notice it in a kind and ethical way...
list your weaknesses
then try to improve.. change it, then compensate.
have a close friend who will understand you for sure... then have one on one talk, what they think of you, as them to tell you all the missing thngs you have to improve...
now, if it doesnt work... the best person to approach is a psychologist he she will give you the guidance and the actions to do, realization and reflection to yourself.., if theres a lacking piece of all go to a psychiatrist.

2006-11-11 10:51:45 · answer #8 · answered by chikqie 2 · 0 0

no human being is inferior, we have to tap our potential, keep seting targets, keep driving ur inner force on the target, no matter what people have to say, just go ahead u will win , losing is a delayed success.

2006-11-11 16:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Think positive and be openhearted and mingle with people,chat go on outings. Dont degrade yourself or compare with others. Be satisfied with what you are and try to improve upon it .

2006-11-11 10:50:30 · answer #10 · answered by khayum p 6 · 0 0

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