What do you think if you see a girl without a bra?

Question

I dont have very big breasts and often used to go out without wearing a bra. But then a friend told me that he thinks this is really unpolite because it catches just too much attention...
Since then i stopped going out braless but some tops just look better.

What do you think?
Is it unpolite?
Does it look slutty?
How is it seen in UK in general?

@Diacana
Why should that be about respect?
Even though I'm thinking about how it might look i still think i get respect for what is in my head and i dont even want to know anybody who would disrespect me for my breasts.

I think women should remember that they ARE different from men AND that this is actually a great fact.

Answer 1

I don't have big breats! I hate wearing bras! They are too complicated to find the correct size and they are just TOO UNCOMFORTABLE. I always go out braless. What's the big deal. Perhaps your friend is jealous that you're getting attention. If it feels good, DO IT! Don't do something for someone else b/c they don't like it, DO WHAT FEELS RIGHT TO YOU! It's not unpolite! I don't think it looks slutty unless you're walking around in a white tee. I don't know anything about the UK, but I'm sure they're fine with it too!

Answer 2

I think that it is in bad taste to go out scantily dressed and that women would probably get more respect if we all wore bras and did not have out breasts hanging out for the world to see. As much as we do not want to admit it, some of those comments we do bring on ourselves because we should know better than to assume that we can walk around in any outfit we like and everyone would have the self control not to say or do anything. It's common sense, and by denying that we make it even worse.

EDIT:
It's Daciana... and I understand what you mean, but what I am saying is that not everyone thinks that way, in fact, most don't as much as that sucks. People judge by appearance, you see a pale faced girl with black hair and dark clothing and what do you automatically think? She's goth and must be depressed. Anyone who says otherwise is lying. The first thought would be judgemental and afterwards you might rethink it. People are always trying to portray themselves as so self-righteous. The fact is if you don't wear a bra, the first thoughts people have about you will be negitive and men will likely think you are easy. That is what I am trying to say. It is about respect. If you can't come to terms with the fact that some people will judge you for not wearing a bra and allowing yourself to look so poorly put together then you ask for those comments. Look at what all of those men said "It's nice when it's cold." Is that really something you appreciate hearing? It's incredibly rude and disrespectful. Is that really how you want to be treated? The bottom line is that it's trashy, and you said it yourself, it catches too much attention. Negitive attention. I'm just telling the truth. No one else seems to have the guts to do that. If you don't want to hear it, don't ask for the truth.

Answer 3

Its depends on the size of the boobs as too whether it looks slutty or not. Girls that are an A cup can get away with it quite easily and it will look fine. However any girl that is a c cup and over needs to wear a bra because if they don't wear one I do thinking that depending on what you are wearing it can look very un-dignified. Also now a-days for girls there is no reason to go without a bra considering that there are so many differing styles. Having said that I sometimes don't wear one but I will admit that's in the safety of my own home, I always wear one when I'm out

Answer 4

Unfortunately many people will see it as being slutty, but, you really shouldn't worry about what those people think. if you know that you're not one then why should it bother you. Bra's are there to give support but can often be uncomfortable, I know I'd rather not wear one given the choice. Wear what you are happy with and don't ever let anyone tell you how you ought to look and dress. And if you really are that nerved by it, remember there are plenty of bra's designed to hide the fact that you're wearing one anyway.

Answer 5

If I notice a girl without a bra I would probably think that she can't afford one. hahaha. Well it looks kind of slutty if it really shows that you're not wearing a bra or showing too much. But it's not unpolite.

Answer 6

I truthfully isn't waiting to! i might adventure like each guy or woman is watching me and that is punctiliously uncomfortable. of direction on some human beings it would not look as undesirable as others and not utilising a bra on, and it additionally relies upon on what you're donning, yet I even with the undeniable fact that should not do it.

Answer 7

Hi I always wear a bra cause I'm a big busted woman , but it comes off as soon as I get in my house , I find them so uncomfortable , but I wear it because being big I need the support to stop them hanging by my knees by the time I'm 50 as someone has already stated would happen , but if I had a small bust I would not hesitate to BURN MY BRA ,and go out without one as I don't give a damn what peeps think !!!!!! I'm the one in discomfort not them!!!!!! So you do what you think is right for you x

Answer 8

I think this is your decision and your freedom to express yourself. As long as you are not very well endowed and they don't bounce everywhere, then no it is not slutty! Still your choice. Some people find this offensive but it is a free country. Do whatever makes you comfortable within reason. I have friends who are small(B's) and they can get away with it with the proper clothing. Don't let anyone tell you how to live your life!

Answer 9

It's certainly not unpolite. Sluttiness is not depedent on whether or not you wear a bra, but on what sort of person you are.

In general in UK I don't think anybody minds.

Answer 10

Of course it's not unpolite or slutty and I bet your mate always looks away when a woman without one walks past(not)