Aries are selfish?

Question

how come i'm not? i care about and love everyone. even strangers.

Answer 1

You know I hear that alot as well and I'm an Aries woman! I would say self centered yes as (Me First )sometimes but not all the time! I give of myself unconditionally sometimes without even thinking about it even to those I don't even know ! I don't know who ever came up with that conclusion but I really think whoever did surely wasn't talking about an Aries male or female! I'll give you whatever I have and will be your most valuable and loyal ally. If you are anything like me you would fight and protect fiercely those you love! Aries selfish? Bah Humbug! Maybe a Leo or a Cancer but never an Aries!

Answer 2

Aries selfisness isn't an annoying, think only of myself sort in most cases.
Since Aries is the first sign of the Zodiac, they represent the baby part of the horoscope. This is where an astrologer looks to see what sort of childhood one might have had. Aries self-centeredness is more childlike in nature. It is an innocent selfishness which knows what it wants and tries to get it. It is similar to the way a baby would try to get the candy they know they shouldn't have. It isn't that they want to be this way, it is innate, and generally, when pointed out to them, as long as it is done tactfully, will recognize the selfishness some may see in their actions and back off. While this innocent self centeredness can be annoying to some, others recognize their other marvelous traits and overlook this tendency in them if it is not too pronounced. They are also wonderful friends, loyal and will be the first to your defense if someone talks bad about you. They will be first , with their swords drawn, at your side if you need an ally.

Answer 3

I'm an Aries and I have to say that sometimes I can be very selfish but most times i do care about certain people.

Answer 4

im an aries and i am VERY shelfish but heres all you need to know:
General behavior:
Aries (the ram) loves freedom, and will accept any challenge. You will get impatient if your ideas do not work out immediately and as expected. You are unwilling to follow someone else's suggestions, especially if they do not make sense to you. You often have excess energy which can make you aggressive. Arians are brave leaders who express care and concern for all they lead. However, an Arian as a follower is rare, and can be troublesome. Some Arians will act self-centered because they believe that their views are right, and anyone who conflicts with them is wrong. Because you are open and honest, you will make energetic and generous friends. Arians have trouble compromising which can lead to problems in otherwise smooth friendships.
Romantic behavior:
You are extremely friendly and charming, and are very attracted to the opposite sex. Speaking of romance, you seem to follow Keats' definition of beauty, "A thing of beauty, is a joy forever." You get bored very soon in your affairs because you also prefer intelligent and versatile partners. You are advised to be careful in your relationships as you could get into trouble easily when you let your heart rule your head. The opposite sex finds you fascinating because of your beauty consciousness, lavish expenditure, dynamism and adventurous nature

Important Information on Arians

Good career choices for you are:
Athlete
Engineer
Doctor
Explorer
Soldier
Sailor
Airman
any type of leader
You are prone to headaches and indigestion.
Your ruling planet: Mars.
The ram is associated with Aries.
Your lucky color: red.
Your lucky gemstone: diamond.
Your lucky numbers : 9 and 1.

Answer 5

In astrology, sun sign alone doesn't determine your entire behavior. You have to look at your chart as a whole. For example, despite that a common negative trait of Aries is selfishness, it is possible that you have something such as Moon in Cancer or Venus in Libra, both of which would be inclined to show care towards others. In fact, sometimes your Moon sign can be stronger than your Sun sign.

Answer 6

Lucky wouldnt know if aries' are selfish or not, because she doesnt have any friends as it is, let alone an aries

Answer 7

not all even though i know some that are just like any other sign. My grandmother is an aries and she is the most giving, sweetest person i know. She is alot more giving than me and I am a pisces. Before my grandfather(saggittarius) passed he told her its ok to say no to people.

Answer 8

My mother is an aries. she is extremely selfish. of course, i think she also has some mental problems as well.

oh, and i'm not an angry teenager lashing out. i'm 31 years old, and am being totally honest.

Answer 9

im an aries too and i would jump in front of a truck for anyone. i am not selfish. i have read that they are selfish but im not either. i think we justnot normal aries

Answer 10

Yeah we are good at putting No.1 first but we also care about others which sometimes gets us into a lot of trouble.