Ok, he bought me this really cute snowflake necklace last week on Thursday I believe. I was getting on his nerves that day and he took it back... He gave it back to me though...I really liked it so I wore it to school that Friday. My phone wasn't charged after I got out so my sister and I had to walk back to the house in the rain...When I got in the house, I thought about it and felt my neck for it...& it was gone...He never got to see me wear it and I felt really bad...not just becaquse of that though, but because I knew he would be mad at me like he is now....so I lied and said I just lfet it at home.I told him the trtuth eventually...He was upset about that, then he wan't mad anymore....now he's mad because he thinks I lost it on purpose....that just goes to show me how much he thinks I care. two days ago, I knew he was upset about something, I just didn't know what...he treats me mean when he's upset...I kept asking what's wrong & he wouldn't tell me...but he told me today.
2006-11-11 02:12:46 · 7 answers · asked by i ♥þîÑk☆ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I really think it's unfair to be mean to me because of that...I told him I was really sorry...I looked for it too...I re traced my steps...in the rain...man I looked all over for it...I really wanted him to see me wear it too...man...so much 4 that....I said I was sorry...lots of times...& that's all I can do...but I guess it's just not enough...
2006-11-11 02:15:16 · update #1
You guys need a break from each other....too much mistrust and hostility.
2006-11-11 02:17:00 · answer #1 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never tolerate him or any man being mean to you. It is not right for a guy to give you a gift, then take it back. On the other hand you shouldn't lie either. There seems to be an awful lot of mistrust in your relationship and that is never a good thing. It also sounds like you are somewhat scared of him and feel like you are constantly walking on egg shells. There is no need for that. If he insists on being mean, send him packing. It's a big world and there are plenty of more mature people out there who will not mistreat you. It sounds like you are fairly young. Life is confusing without a doubt and I know you want to feel wanted. But you should never ever ever allow yourself to get into the position of living in fear. That is how battered wives get into their situations...they tend to blame their own behavior for upsetting their man, then get abused and think it is their own fault. The more I read your question, the more of a red flag I see. I think I'd recommend ending it with him and shopping around.
2006-11-11 03:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by William E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He shouldnt have treated mean to you like that. Thats not kind of men I prefer. If he really loves you he should have understnad about the necklace and should have consoled u instead of gettin mad or anything! You should really see how he feels about you!!! And let him know for a 101 percent that you really like the necklace and not loosing it on purpose!!! If he doesnt understand then you will have to think why he doeesnt...is it that he was so stress...or he wanted to take it as a "reason" to break up with you. But dont worry too much I think he loves you girl just that you will need to make sure he fully understands about you and the necklace!!! Good luck!!!
2006-11-11 02:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by ABZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds kind of miserable and you don't need that . If you lost it then you can't do anything about it . its gone .Too bad what he thinks ! Its not like you lost the family dog its a necklace and can be replaced ! Tell him to grow up !
2006-11-11 02:22:35 · answer #4 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy another 2 necklaces that are exactly the same , give one to him. He cares about u that is why he is angry that you lost that necklace
2006-11-11 05:18:54 · answer #5 · answered by Baby DuskAngel 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to find a less tempermental bf. One that will be willing to forgive you for accidents!
2006-11-11 02:18:51 · answer #6 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should buy the exact same one that he bought you and wear it.. at least he will know that you didnt lose it on purpose and you didnt hate it
2006-11-11 02:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by chris j 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋