iam 33 married with 7 year child. iam loosing my intrest in sex.can u give practical tips to get sex intrest.?

Answer 1

Well, i guess it's normal to feel that way. I'm 28 and my husband is 38. He's having the same problem. So what we did is that after all the girls are in bed we spent sometimes in front of the TV and watch movies that we like. At the same try to flirt around with each other. Kissing and touching and hugging...etc. At this moment do not have any limits or borders towards each other. Just do what ever you like. Even if it's in the kitchen!

Answer 2

I am guessing you're a woman since you mention your child. Most guys wouldn't. So life is busy and you always on the go... winding up tired at the end of the day. Stress is a big factor too. The other equation is your partner. Does he help you out with things around the house, making your load a little lighter. I have found that women need the set up... a reason to be mentally comfortable in the first place, so that the mood can be right. Some women need a lot of set up, some don't. My advice is, become stress free, find a way to relax and get him to help you. Get a sitter for an overnight trip and go downtown or someting... out for a romantic evening and then back to a hotel... something a little different. Keeping things fresh and trying new things can reignite the romance and the desire for an increased sex life. Good luck.

Answer 3

My guess is that you are not losing interest in sex. You are losing interest in sex with your husband. The fact that you mentioned your child tells me that your identity is wrapped up in being a mother rather than a woman. Big Mistake! Your children will grow up and leave. You are in the prime of your life. True, we have responsibilities as parent, but not at the expense of our sexuality. Your husband should be bringing out your sexuality. Obviously, he is not. Go get a boyfriend. That'll do the trick!

Answer 4

I'm married with 3 kids and my wife and I always have time for sex. You should destress yourself. Your marriage/relationship is your FIRST priority. Never mind the folks who say the kids are. They don't realize that kids grow up and leave the house and if you have put your love life on the back burner, you will not just watch the kids move but the husband as well.

Answer 5

Get yourself a Sancho. You know a little on the side. A sneak around. On the sly. THis will do wonders for your sex life. Dont worry about your partner Im sure he has somehting on the side as well. I know you think he doesnt but what is he to do you say NO he'll find someone that will say yes.... you reap what you sow

Answer 6

Your 33 years old and i bet that your a beautiful young lady! Sex is the most intimate thing that you can do with your partner, you could try to get some sex objects to spice up your sex life or you and your partner should try no things that ya ll haven't done before!!!

Answer 7

I am 34 married with 2 children.
Baths together? Showers together? Massages? Candle light dinners at home? Candlelight dinner at nice restraunt? Nice nighty?
I hope some of this helps
I misread your question at first thought you had 7 children. LOL sorry

Answer 8

After a long relationship the sex does take a back seat. This is normal. You just have to work at it harder.

Answer 9

Fid an exciting and an all knowing mate and let them lead the dance

Answer 10

are you on birth control? cause some birth control can decrease the sex drive.talk to your doctor and he can probably switch you on a different low hormonal pill. good luck