My friend was recently divorced. She began dating again or so she says. I think she was just looking for comfort. Well, anyways, she met this guy. He was so nice at first. After two months in, she saw a guy she went to high school with who is married and just had a new baby. He asked her out to lunch (with his wife's consent. the only reason she didn't come along too was she had to work.) so they could catch up on old times and share photos of his baby and my friend's daughter. Well, the guy she was beginning to date found out and now he's on a rampage. He threatened the guy she went to school with, says he'll kill any guy that tries to come around her, and almost got her kicked out of her apartment by driving crazy in the parking lot (where kids play) because he was mad. How can I make her see that he's so wrong???
2006-11-11 00:50:29 · 6 answers · asked by Elli 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sometimes it takes a bad incident for someone to see the "real" person. Tell her that she deserves to be treated with respect and if he's already this jealous, imagine where the relationship is going. It sounds like this guy has an anger problem. Tell her that you're worried about her and hope she will really think about this guy's actions before she gets any further involved with him.Just remember that she is going through a major life change right now after the divorce and she needs support to get through this.You are a good friend to try and help her out. I wish you luck.
2006-11-11 01:00:12 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When love is in the air people can go blind and i guess that's what happen to your friend. What you need to do is to open her eyes and look at all angles. To me he's a phsyco. You have to talk to her eye to eye and try to put sense into her. You need to advise her on the matters and ask her to try to investigate bout this person personaly and see what he's capable of doing. This is a matter of life and death. She might jump into the rabbit hole and can never escape.
2006-11-11 09:01:32 · answer #2 · answered by freegowalker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll have to come to that realization herself. But, when she does, it's gonna hurt. So be ready to be her shoulder to cry on.
2006-11-11 08:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by Ha Ha! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. She can only see this for herself. And sometimes they never see it.
2006-11-11 09:11:32 · answer #4 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to "open her eyes" ! if he is exibiting this kind of action early on....it will only get worse with time. tell her to run as far and as fast away from him as she can and never look back. he is "NOGOOD" ....
PERIOD!
2006-11-11 09:07:05 · answer #5 · answered by lanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl sorry but your friend seems to be blind??
cant she see that he's crazy herself??
2006-11-11 08:56:26 · answer #6 · answered by coco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋