I Love him very much, he is our school's sir,I love him from5 years,but till can't say him.
We had a good frdly relationship,but now he is nneglecting me, i think he don't loves me.I can't live with out him"
What to do?
2006-11-11 00:02:03 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-11-11 01:19:13 · answer #1 · answered by brxny2000 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you a student or a teacher in the same school? If you are a teacher, then why can't you tell him directly? If the age gap is more between you, then you should carefully think about it. Older men are preferable, but you will have problems in life at a later stage.
Remember, time is a great healer. If he doesn't love you, then you can't do anything about it. Time will heal you. You CAN live without him and go on in life. Take things in a practical way. Don't fret and fume on unnecessary things. Be practical in such matters.
2006-11-13 16:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by sunilbernard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens to every one in life i am happy that u feel u are in love with this guy who is supposedly ur school sir!!
C'mon girl this happens to every woman at a paricular stage of life. Your Sir will surely be a very well educated man, He must be matured and would want to make u feel every moment a lady!!in da sense he would always want 2 make students feel good in his company!! but girls often make this mistake of miunderstanding this realtionship, i too like u ahd a huge crush on my own sir !!!
But it was later when I realised he was friendly to all and made everyone like him as a Sir, I liked him b'coz he was cool and had the style and made every moment of mine special to me!!
It is very bad to make immature decisions at a particular point of time and suffer for the rest of ur life !!
Its time baby that u come out from ur world of fantasy and step into the real world....and by da way whatever u think is just plain infatuation...Enjoy its bitterness and pangs until it just fades away with passing moments....But don't excited and do something that wud be
harmful to u and for everyone else around u !!
U may find some cute, caring, loving guy who will pay attention to u and will live u unconditionally!!.... just wait for him
So it was just a piece of advice from my side!
Wish u good luck!!!!!!!
2006-11-11 05:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by Nilima L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you've got is not love, it's a 'crush', love takes two, and it comes with having a relationship. Enjoy your fantasy but try to understand exactly what it is - a 'crush' or a fantasy for a guy. There will be many more to come and it gets easier with time.
2006-11-11 00:08:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOu can either ask him directly and be brave if he would lkike to be with you...or else, move on. Plenty of fish in the sea, and yes, you can live without him and be happy. Sounds like an unhealthy addiction to someone. Read up on that in psych and relationship books.
2006-11-11 00:06:25 · answer #5 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe what you feel for him is a true love because it took you five years to keep that wonderful feelings for him.I experienced that when i was in college.When i was just in highschool i really like my brother-in-faith guy, he's older than me about 6 six years, i start to have a crush on him but when we get a really close friendship in college i saw myself falling in love with in him. BUT the catch here is i didnt talk to him my feelings, because i believe that a girl is great if she could hold back her feelings to other person and waits if that person could love her also, and when that guy courted me, then it is the time that i will tell my feelings for him. But in my case i never expect ANYTHING from him.ANd i know that he has feelings for other girl, so i didnt really think that he could have feelings for me.I contented enough for our friendship. I even called him 'my big brother".Months passed and he seemed to get naive, he seems avoiding me, it really hurt me because i only want to have a friendship with him..Not else..So i also avoid him too. But he feels it and i was really shocked that he go to my house and talked about it. He said that he just avoided me because he was getting to LIKE me..He somehow confused..That time i cried in front of him, thinking that is it true or not..He cried too..But because i know that he has a feelings to the other girl, and he is courtihg her, i cannot said my feelings for him...I cant. I dont want to be the one who could give him a confusion.And from the very start i know that im not the one who he really love..He just developed his feelings for me unintentionally, because of our closeness. That moment in my life i realize that i could never have his love because i know he really love that girl.Atleast we fixed up our friendship and now he's married to that girl. I realized that loving someone does not mean that you must be his girl, and you cant live this life if he will never be yours. Love is understanding and letting go of the peson who was not meant for you. And loving is being happy for him too.Right now im having a great relationship with my bestfriend, that God has given to me to be also happy and complete.Hope i could help you somehow by sharing my story.Thats all.
2006-11-11 01:18:12 · answer #6 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are n ot the fisrt person going thro this infatuation level. many boys and girl go thro this period, ive seen boy writting love letter to their teachers and vice versa.
i dont know how far you have gone with this teacher of yours, since u say u love him from last five years and u had good frndly relations (hope they did not end up in sex). It is alwys better to talk about it to your close friends and realtives with whom you share your confidential thoughts, according to me it is nothing but and infatuation from your end, which i know you will certainly not agree upon. but please do not make this realtionship serious since the teacher - i think knows your motives and doing a right thing by neglecting you. please do be matured enough to understand his motives and divert your mind is good better thing and career.
i wish u all luck and better life.
dkb_dk2000@yahoo.com
2006-11-11 00:10:55 · answer #7 · answered by dkb_dk2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Kareena,
It is difficult to explain you in just a few lines.
Better have a chat describing the situation detailed, and then take advice.
IM me on vikram_s_bhatt@yahoo.co.in
Bye
2006-11-14 22:42:02 · answer #8 · answered by Vizz_up 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paedophiles, Sex offendres does that sund familiar. You could end up getting him fired or in jail. Think a hundred times before you pick up that pen and paper and do something really stupid.
2006-11-12 14:21:29 · answer #9 · answered by medicine_is_sexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. It is very clear that he does not care a bit. Don't hurt yourself further. You are still young. More appropriate and wonderful boys will come your way.
2006-11-11 00:56:36 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its very simple. Find one of your classmet who is lazy. Introduce him to your love as your boyfriend. You will get the right answer.
2006-11-11 21:34:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋