Ive been finding that it takes a while for me to ejaculate during oral sex and intercourse. I masturbate to the tune of 2-3 times per day aswell. Has my penis become used to the hard grip of my hand and so a vagina or mouth wouldnt have the desired effect? If i stopped masturbating so much and didnt grip it so hard would this do the trick? if so how long do you think it would take b4 my penis has been resensitised to normal levels?
2006-11-10 23:55:19 · 11 answers · asked by macmurphy45 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
be happy. some guys come too fast.
2006-11-14 04:13:45 · answer #1 · answered by blah blah 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I agree that your penis can become somewhat desensitized by repeated use and thus not perform as well or as quickly as you desire during some activities.
First, reduce your masturbation to once a day; that will take away some of the desensitizing activity. As well, try to be very gentle on yorupenis so as not to cause too much friction on the glans. In fact practice a variety of techniques that bring you to orgasm in different ways. Also, feel free to use a lubricant especially if your glans/head feels dry or is getting a little too much friction.
Second, after any sexual activity (including masturbation) always clean and dry your penis thouroughly then apply a moisturizer to help soften up the glans/head. This is especially important if you happen to be circumcized since yoru head tends to dry out from constant exposure unlike one with foreskin that is protected.
Third, ask your partner to step up the roughness a little during sex. Do not push them to go beyond what they enjoy; merely go a little faster or be a little rougher so as to provide you with a bit more stimulation. There is nothing wrong with good communication between partners about the feelings being excperienced during sex. The more you know about each other, the better it gets.
Fourth, if all else fails either give up masturbating or gve up sex - hehe. Well not quite that bad but cut back the masturbation to less than once a day if you have to.
2006-11-13 13:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Penis can get no custom to the hand!
The most part of the penis' sensitivity is in the glans and it decreases with the age or whereas we deliberately do something to lose it.Generally the lost sensitivity can't be recuperated. However, that's not your case I think!
It is normal taking more time for the orgasm during oral sex .
For that I advise you to start the oral act in the middle of the play, so to be nearer to the orgasm.
At last, try to don't masturbate for some days before the sexual act.
OK?!
2006-11-11 03:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by whole_feelings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, If you do it 2~3 times a day so definitely there would be nothing to *** when doing it with a girl, considering the fact that it is always harder to *** for the 2nd time and even harder in the 3rd. my suggestion: stop masturbating for a while - at least 4-5 days- then have sex; possibly 2 times or even 3 in a day. and then try masturbating after it. you will discover the beauty of nature!
2006-11-11 00:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by ASARA 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, stop masturbating for a few days or 2 weeks,,, or just masturbate slowly and slightly, dont put pressure... yes the vagina cant hug ur penis as well as you hand's grip. Unless she does exercises and learn how to do it.. * Hey, but do that wait a few says without masturbation, it may helps....also try other positions with her and tell her to contract to make you *** faster... it should work and women should know how to do that,
2006-11-11 03:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-27 19:52:32 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't this known as Portnoys complaint?
2006-11-11 04:25:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes my hubby used to masturbate too much and now im suffering the consequences. he takes too long to come unless he masturbate.
2006-11-13 02:19:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your problem is worrying about all of your questions. relax and just enjoy. there is no time span on sexual pleasure. perhaps concentrating more on pleasing your partner will help
2006-11-10 23:59:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
omg that's the worst thing that can probably happen to a guy... you should try to masturbate less often because i think if you ejaculate too much in a day you will get deproteinized and it could probably destroy your muscles... so keep it a maximum of once a day.
2006-11-11 00:08:36 · answer #10 · answered by SensitiveMe 2 · 2⤊ 5⤋