like.......... i m in college at times i find people interested in me but again at times i feel that i have lost them
2006-11-10 23:51:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
what i am gonna say might be completely different than what you read in self help books or articles of similar nature ... but this will help you in todays dog eat dog world ... 1st of all you need to appear strong in front of people (even if you have to pretend) and this is not for ever .. just for some days as you will realise this attracts people to you and it will inrase ur confidence level .. do not be eager to please ... be helpful but dont go out of your way to do things for people you just met or friends you just made ... people will walk all over you ... and last but not the least .. love yourself more than anything ..
2006-11-11 03:00:50 · answer #1 · answered by edifiz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Vaibhav
It is a problem which everyone faces. Everybody loves to be a center of attraction. There are ways - you either need to be a leader or a extremist or you need to be diffrent by doing diffrent things.
But how to do that is a big question? My suggestion.
Try cultivating a hobby which is unique, more challenging and interesting. Make people know about your unique hobby and m sure people will love to discuss about your passion and admire you for the same.
I developed an hobby of palmistry & meumorology in my college days which worked.
Best of luck dude.
2006-11-11 08:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by zarar don 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Expect to have an intense life, as you will likely be spending it in the company of other strong people. It is possible that you will attend a psychic event, You will be stunned by what you learn about yourself. Though you may have gone to the event on a whim, you leave it a convert
2006-11-11 08:02:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always try all you could to be your very self. Yes be yourself and natural. All those who loves sincerity and honesty will love and stay with you for this very reason. But those who want to leave, bid them goodbye and continue with your life.
2006-11-11 08:11:49 · answer #4 · answered by sankara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read
Your Erroneous Zones
then join some clubs
2006-11-11 08:07:57 · answer #5 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and enjoy life. Don't push it but be amiable too. Perhaps you don't smile or talk to people. Be friendly.
2006-11-11 23:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems u r not interested in urself..... love urself... admire urself.. u ll find others admiring you... automatically u ll be feeling that u seem to be interesting for others.... even if not do u need someone more than you to think that you r interesting?...!....
2006-11-11 09:08:05 · answer #7 · answered by pinkpreez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are lacking confidence in you.
eat healthy,do your studies properly,think good and positive.
only positive thinking can improve the situation.
2006-11-12 03:10:34 · answer #8 · answered by asoke k. m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
VAIBAV THE BEST THING IS GET GOOD MARKS IN ALL AND BE FIRST IN SPORTS WHATEVER THING AND SHOW OTHERES THAT YOU ARE THHE BEST. THATS THE WAY HERE'S THE ANSWER'S WAY .
2006-11-11 07:56:12 · answer #9 · answered by here's the answer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best way to get people attracted to u is SMILE.
2006-11-11 08:14:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋