i havent got pregnant for 2 years, what am i doing wrong, is it me?

Question

i havent got pregnant for 2 years and i have been off the pill for those two years i went to the doctors but they dont want to know and i am getting worried that i cant get pregnant i have worked my dates out, but it still not happening what i am doin wrong, can any one give my advice on what i can do, any tips on how and when is the right time, i havent got a mum who can advice me on these things so i have been kept in the dark on the sex sides of things, any one out there who can help me that would be great. thank you

Answer 1

You need to relax....thats it...no big secret, just relax.

Answer 2

After one year of TTC the OB will diagnose you as infertile, and recommend that you start workups to find out the cause of your infertility. The good news is that the majority of the time, infertility is a medically treatable problem, the bad news is that not all states mandate that it be covered by medical insurance so you may need to pay out of pocket. http://www.resolve.org/site/PageServer?pagename=lrn_dcon_home

The first test is usually a sperm count - they check the number, how they're formed (2 tails, 2 heads, normal, etc.), how fast they swim. It's easier to rule out and treat that then to go through every possibility for a woman so they start there. http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/fertility/MC00023

You may end up having blood work done to check hormone levels, a radiological procedure called an HSG to check if your tubes are open, and trying infertility drugs like clomid to induce ovulation. It's possible that you may need a combination of fertility drugs and IUI so the sperm can be placed closer to their target.

At home you can chart your body temperature at the same time every day - also chart your cervical mucus. It's commonly thought that ovulation happens 2 weeks before you start your period however that's not true for everyone. Cycle lengths vary and so does ovulation. http://www.babycenter.com/refcap/3195.html

You can also buy ovulation predictor kits at the store, they will help you pinpoint the ovulation time http://www.clearblueeasy.com/our_products_digital_ovulation_test_kit.cfm

Sperm can last a couple of days, but it's a harsh environment for them to survive in so timing can be very important. Stay positive, learn everything you can, and don't be afraid to ask the OB any questions no matter how silly you might think they are.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

I know exactly how you feel. My hubby and I tried for 5 years until I got pregnant with my son. I would stress about it and when my period would come I'd be so disappointed, but then I came to the conclusion that I wasnt going to have another baby and wouldn't you know about 3 months later I got pregnant. I really think that me stressing so much had an effect on it. Now we're trying again and my dr had given me medication to help. Good luck and God bless

Answer 5

clinically, you are infertile. however, there are a lot of ways that can change.

first, are your periods regular? if so, then ovulation happens around 2 weeks before your next expected period. during this time, have sex with your partner not more than once every other day as it will decrease his sperm count if done more ofter.

second, your vaginal environment may be too acidic, killing the sperm. make sure you do not use any artificial lubrication and you are properly aroused (that way, your body produces alkaline secretions favorable to the sperm) before ejaculation.

if none of these work, go to the doctor. he may conduct tests on the patency of your fallopian tubes, your partner's sperm count, or if you really are ovulating (some women menstruate with no release of egg).

good luck!

Answer 6

If you have been ttc for 2 years, then you need to make an appointment with a Fertility Specialist. He/She will run a battery of tests on you and your spouse to determine the reason behind your infertility.

My husband and I tried to conceive for over 3 years. After the first year we went to see a Specialist. And finally determined what was wrong. After that, treatments were designed to increase our chances each month. Eventually we got pregnant through IVF.

Remember that if you have a real genuine medical problem that causes you to not get pregnant, relaxing will NOT help. Relaxing only helps if you have unexplained infertility. Please make an appointment to see a Specialist. It was worth every penny for us.

Answer 7

You are aware that to get pregnant you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.

After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. Tell your husband to ejaculate on his inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.

After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up with a pillow under your buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.

Get your husband to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 3 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.

Answer 8

Relax, Don't think about it, I hated hearing those words. My doctor finally gave me advice that worked after trying for seven years to get pregnant. Try not going to the bathroom after sex, and sleep with a pillow under your hips. Worked for me and 2 other people I know.

Answer 9

Infertility is generally declared after 1 year. If your current doctor is unwilling to help you, I definitely say go to another doctor. Find someone who is willing to work with you and your husband to find out if someone has a problem, and if so how it can be treated. And as hard as it is, try to relax. Even if you or your husband are having problems, stress will only exacerbate things. Good luck!

Answer 10

well you know even though we have two ovaries we only have a 50 50% chance of getting pregnant every month, that being said you just maybe trying to hard, if you could afford it have the doctor do a fertility check on both you and your man, stop trying so hard, Ive heard so many times about couple adopting and then getting pregnant, because they werent thinking about it so much, good luck

Answer 11

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