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i think i'm pregnant and havin a miscarrige, i went to the doctor and she said i can save the baby if i am pregnant but i have to go to hospital and i'm in pain, how can i tell my mum. i really want to keep the baby please help

2006-11-10 23:28:44 · 15 answers · asked by Holly 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

my age is 16, 17 in under a month

2006-11-10 23:35:57 · update #1

thanks for helpin, i tryed to tell her last night but it was really difficult, i will tell her the second she gets back and hope the baby lives :)

2006-11-11 00:03:14 · update #2

15 answers

This sounds like an emergency - just tell your mum straight up. Tell her exactly how you feel and ask for her help. You'll be fine. Most parents always want to be there for their children and love them unconditionally.

2006-11-10 23:31:56 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 0 0

At this point it can't be something that you draw out. Just tell her that you need to go to the hospital because you think you're having a miscarriage. There will be plenty of time for explanations after you seek medical attention. Along with the babies health being threatened YOU could also die from a miscarraige. So, just go to the doctor.

2006-11-11 07:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i was 16 years old when i had my first child. I was really scaried to tell them but then i realize that i can not do this on my own. i went to my mom and told her not to get mad and not to yell and to listen to everything i had to say. then i told her that i was pregant and i need to go see a doctor. I told her i knew i mad a mistake and now i need a little help figuring everything out. She got really mad but after a week or two my mom was shopping and getting excited for her first grandchild and now i have two kids and my mom is right there for anything. u need to think about saving your child's life your parents can not stay mad at u forever. save the baby and then deal with the lectures u dont know it might turn out like it did for me

2006-11-11 07:53:02 · answer #3 · answered by angel2eyes01 2 · 0 0

It's hard to give advice when we don't know your age. I would assume that your still pretty young. Just sit your mother down and nicely tell her. She will be upset, but then she will calm down. Try not to yell or show anger, your still her baby and that's why she'll get upset, but she should know what is best and I believe that she'll stay by your side. Good luck.

2006-11-11 07:34:15 · answer #4 · answered by Jer 3 · 0 0

Tell your mom that you're in pain and need to get to the hospital now. You can tell her once you're there. Go now.
(they may not be able to save the baby, but they can help you)

2006-11-11 07:39:24 · answer #5 · answered by Pam 5 · 0 0

awww hunny you haven't got time to waste you just need to sit your parents down or write them a letter and explain that you are pregnant but losing the baby and the only way to save it is to go to hospital and tell them you want them with you for support

Good luck

2006-11-11 07:49:28 · answer #6 · answered by clairefleck 2 · 0 0

You have to tell her and get to the hospital now. You say you are ready to be a parent and being one means that you put your child before yourself. You have to think about your child and deal with whatever reaction your mom is going to have.

2006-11-11 07:33:07 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Stacy 6 · 0 0

There is no better way than to just simply tell them. I promise you that they wont freak out as bad as you think. I think most parents would be glad that you could come out and tell them something like this. Good luck.

2006-11-11 07:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by johnnybutt12 4 · 0 0

this is not the time for explainations just get her in the car n rush to the hospital can do all the talking in the car she'll understand after all she too is a mother.

2006-11-11 07:56:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

just tell her and get the help you and the baby need you can im me if you need help with sings of pregnancy
but tell her the truth before some thing goes wrong and hurry

2006-11-11 07:53:22 · answer #10 · answered by GINA D 2 · 0 0

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