Okay, this is what happened. At high school, i was in a fight with another student who is smaller than me. The fight was broken up after the first punch, and that student hit me and i was injured. Right now, all my friends and classmates thinks i got bashed and even my girlfriend knows about this as well. If i fight him, i might get supsended and since he has more friends then me, i will probably be hated. but on the other hand, if i won, i would get my pride back, and my repetation with my gf woudl go up. so what do you think i should do?
2006-11-10 23:17:06 · 8 answers · asked by wigga4life50cent2pac 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i dont really know if i can whoop him or not but aroudn 70% sure i can
2006-11-10 23:33:01 · update #1
I've won and lost fights, but i've never felt pride in victory, and the pain of defeat is only short term. Screw what people think and do what you feel is right. Does this guy deserve to get his *** kicked?like if he hit you first for no reason, then do it. If you are positive you can whoop him and its no big deal then let it slide. If you are doing the right thing and your friends give you sh it than get new friends.
2006-11-10 23:28:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fight. You are the better MAN for not throwing the first punch, let alone any punch at all!
You are the more mature one, the more responsible one, the more honorable one. The other one is a wus and a baby and has no self-control or maturity.
Pat yourself on the back and if you lose friends over this, even your gf, then sorry my man, they weren't worth having in the first place.
2006-11-11 07:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
take it from a former school bully, it won't matter later to you.
unfortunately i NEVER walked away from a fight, picked on people for no reason, finished every fight ever broken up and so on.....it haunts me and believe me, i got my share of a$$ kicking later by my ex husband. it's all about karma and I got mine.
I'm a better person now. I didn't deserve to have my a$$ kicked by my ex, nor did the people i fought deserve what they got.
Forget it, laugh it off, but more importantly apologize while you still can. Life's too short.
2006-11-11 08:28:31 · answer #3 · answered by BIZ Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY wigga yeahs but I know what its like to be in that kind of situation and I do not think you should fight em back, Has a molado gurl I get in mad fights wit black girls. And it aint worth gettin suspended for. FOR REALZ. And if you gotta get more respect from ur gurl for losin a fight she is wack!!! My bf is white and he always get in fights wit black boys for me. And he loses some and he gains some but no mata what I always got his back. Get a new gurl!
2006-11-11 09:45:17 · answer #4 · answered by :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a bigger man to forgive and walk away...if your so called friends ,including your girlfriend don't understand ...then it's simply time to find new friends... your feelings may be hurt for a bit,but you get over it...life's experiences aren't always what we want them to be
2006-11-11 08:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by kick it 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will all be forgotten soon you should'nt worry about it and wid ur gf just tell her you had no time 2 fight bk
2006-11-11 07:52:05 · answer #6 · answered by badboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up and forget it dont need to fight to prove your self a bigger man will walk away.
2006-11-11 07:22:55 · answer #7 · answered by hurts so good 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont fight him if you really love your girlfriend you should tell the other boy your sorry.
2006-11-11 07:24:02 · answer #8 · answered by movie star 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋