A boy in my college was first my friend.Then he proposed me & i said no to him. After some months i realised that i am in love with him.Now what i should do?
2006-11-10 22:44:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
try to find out if he still feels the same about you... if he doesnt, then move on... if he does love you, have courage to tell him that you are now in love with him.....
just dont ever make him feel like he has no dignity or self-respect as you have already said no to him once.
he might be really hurt OR seeking revenge (not trying to scare ya)
2006-11-10 22:50:29 · answer #1 · answered by Lestat R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Approach him and tell him your feelings for him. Start at the beginning and let him know why you didnt feel the same back then and then tell him why you feel differently now. Im sure he will understand. Love isnt something than can be rushed, youve got to know in your heart your doing the right thing. Hope all goes well, good luck xxx
2006-11-11 06:50:08 · answer #2 · answered by spensmum 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What did he propose you for? A part in a play? Had he proposed TO you,then it would be different. Perhaps he wanted you in the first 15 team. How is your rucking? Can you run with the ball?
2006-11-11 06:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by Free cloud loafer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel but if hes interested (which I should think he still would be if he was serious) tell him that you want things to move slowly as although you really like him you are not the kind of person that can rush into things, hpe it all goes well for you, i'm sure it will x
2006-11-11 07:00:31 · answer #4 · answered by supastar_666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you were not harsh to him. Just say you were wrong to refuse, be direct. Make sure, though, that your feelings are genuine and not just friend withdrawal. I have been honest with men and even if they don't reciprocate the feeling, at least I know for certain and is easier to move on.
2006-11-11 06:50:59 · answer #5 · answered by noelis12 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, however, just because you have realized you are in love doesn't mean you have to rush to get married. Tell him of your feelings and take it slow, finish college and obtain your education first. God bless
2006-11-11 06:52:49 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel, but don't be disappointed if his feelings are no longer the same. I had a similar experience and it didn't end too well. I hope your story has a happy ending.
2006-11-11 06:49:33 · answer #7 · answered by antigone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him exactly how you feel before its too late and he moves on with someone else. You should never wait. Go with your gut instinct and go for it, you might be pleasantly surprised. Good luck!
2006-11-11 06:51:18 · answer #8 · answered by walrus 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should go back and tell him how you feel. If you really love each other there shouldn't be a problem.
2006-11-11 06:50:36 · answer #9 · answered by CHEROKEE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that at first you were afraid that having a relationship with him would ruin your friendship, but you now realize you love him so much that you are willing to risk your friendship to be with him.
2006-11-11 06:48:21 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋