shall i act cold 2 my ex n forget him or let him kno my real feelins now(stil luv him)?what else shall i do???

Question

my ex had a gf and he had so much problems wit her and so we become gud friends,i shared his problems,gave him advices and make him forget abt sadness.later on,we were goin out,in REAL LUV.un4tunately then i got stressed out wit my family and i broke up wit him.we never tlk/look @ each ohter since that.but then sumthin happened and we became frends agen.after a week he asked me out.we dated agen for the second time.this time i realised i luv him so much.but sumthin were wrong that kept us argueing almost EVERYDAY!we went out for 3weeks then he got stressed out of arguments and HE decided to break up,he said he doesnt want to argue wit me nemore.i heard our frends said he still likez me a LITTLE.ive tlked to him tat IM STIL LUVIN HIM n want him back.but he said he wanted 2b free and wans 2b my frend.i cried alot.yesterday we hang out at my frend's house,i ACTed close to one of his frend(he thought i like this guy!)when we had dinner,he initiatively sat NEXT TO me.im confused abt that!!

Answer 1

It is better to forget him and find some one , he is not stable and will troubles you a lot later if you restart spending time with him , not a good pair .

Answer 2

I hope I interpreted what you said correctly. Basically you're saying you broke up with a guy u luv last year and he came back to you but twice as hard as before. So technically that means you guys are indeed together? The only person preventing you from seeing him is your mom so that's basically why you can't be with him the way you'd like to be? Well maybe you should listen to your mom. She probably sees the side of him that your love for him is preventing you from seeing. You may know you love him now, but how well do you know him/think you know him. Are you absolutely sure he's worth the amount of love and intensity you're investing in him. Can you say with full confidence that a time will never come when he'll break your heart and leave you emotionally wounded to the point where you feel you could never love that way again? Is he willing to do whatever it takes to make this relationship work, or will he eventually cheat on you or get cold feet and leave you when things start to get too serious for him and you reach the point where a mere commitment just isn't cutting it anymore? These and more are the questions you need to ask yourself. To be in love is a beautiful thing, but the pain you feel after the one you gave your heart to breaks it is even more weakening. So before you go risking everything at the expense of someone who may or may not be serious about a long term relationship, listen and talk to your mother. Find out from her what it is about him she doesn't approve of and try to establish some common ground. If you're absolutely sure that he's the one for you, then you have to be open and honest about your relationship. Get to know his friends and family, exes, etc. Let him get to know your friends and family, because if anything should go wrong during the course of the relationship/he does anything stupid, these are the same ppl that will inform you about it, and provide u with a measure of comfort during that painful time. Just be more open-minded and listen to your mom before u rush ahead with your feelings. Your mom loves you ad has your best interest at heart and she'll never hold back or prevent you from having anything good in your life, so give her credit before you go against her wishes.

Answer 3

Keep flaunting other men at him and he will be back in no time.