I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. He has never given me any reason to think he's cheated until the other day when he recieved a phone call while he was getting ready for work at 4:00am. I was half asleep but I noticed the tone in his voice and the words he was using, it didnt sound like he was talking to a guy. When i asked him about it he said it was a guy from work... if so then why did that person ask him what he was doing? I grabbed the phone and read the name corry. there was also another call from the same person a couple days ago at 2:53am. Ever since he has been hiding his phone. I tried to talk to him about it... he said that I was crazy and then fought with me about something else? should I trust him?
2006-11-10 22:22:15 · 6 answers · asked by lacefranks 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
From what you have told us I'd say he most likely is doing something he doesn't want you to know about. I won't say he is cheating, BUT, it leans that way. Without having actual proof I would not accuse him of it. But I would look into things. You know his work schedule, so for starters check things out. You might call him at work when he is suppose to be working and if he is there then you can always say you called to make plans for that night as you got the sudden urge to go out. There are many reasons you could use. If he isn't there this is more evidence that he may very well be cheating. At this point you could even follow him or have someone check up on him. Is there a money difference in the amount he brings home? Is he going out more often than usual? Does he shower or clean up as soon as he gets home? Does he at times smell of perfume? There are all so many things or ways to find out. BUT this can take time. So be cool and don't make accusations that you can't backup. (Prove) If he is cheating dump him. You don't need a loser. I wish you the best of luck that things work out for you.
2006-11-10 22:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, he is cheating. There is no doubt in my mind. What kind of cell phone does he have? Can you get ahold of his monthly statement? If not you can go online to the phone carrier and pull a call list. My wife did the same thing that is how I busted her dumbass. Good luck.
2006-11-11 06:42:48 · answer #2 · answered by Donkeypunch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take more time to see about the phone call stuffs, but dont get your nerve to worry and get stress about it too much(because it would effect your actions to him and would cause arguments and he might not like it while it's not real you doing that, it shall be very silly if someone misunderstood you!) Do something sweet to him (and have an expect of what he would do if he loves you, what he would do if he's been cheating), try this its my first suggestion. goodluck
2006-11-11 08:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by ABZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spineless Liar. Who in the world calls that late. Sounds pretty fishy to me. Go with your gut. You are not a crazy, he is playing you for a fool.
2006-11-11 06:40:22 · answer #4 · answered by Bu Tran 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats realy sad =( its realy disgustin how guys break girls hearts.. um.. well maybe u can spy on him.. hehe
2006-11-11 06:28:57 · answer #5 · answered by pUnK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are obviously the jealous and insecure type, so dump him...
2006-11-11 06:27:54 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋