okay, i had a bad break up a lil while back - few months and i was really into himi know nothing can work out between us and ive been in the recienving end of the pain: its been abt 5 months since the breajk up
ever since alot of guys have asked me out, but i cant seem to find a need to go out with anyone, but some were really nice guys: however i am still healing my wounds that were caused to me in the previous relstionship
deep inside, i do wish to find someone and go out and just make sure that botth me and the guy i go out with are happy
yesterday, a friend lectured me , she sais that i keep leading guys on, and then saying no to them, and i need to go out with someone now its high time. however i am not emotionally totally over my ex yet, so i just cant do that, and i do not wanna start a new relationship cause i wont be able to put my heart and soul into it
therefore i only want to start a new relationship, when i am really ready, and right now, i am just not
2006-11-10 22:00:01 · 8 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
can someone please tell me what is the right thing for me to do at this point of time!!??
what do i do abt what my friend said??
what am i suppose to do abt my feelings for my ex, nothin can ever happen, he has someone else??
how do i find someone, plz help ne outt
2006-11-10 22:00:14 · update #1
Time will talke its course and heal your broken heart, typically after a breakup one or the other tends to hurt more and it seems like you were the one left with the bigger wound. Take your time believe me you will be alright, you cant do anything about your ex if he has someone new.
Do go out and get your mind of things and do go out with guys, just let them know up front that you are just looking to be friends, dont give them too many details of your recent break up, it will turn them off.
Good luck.
2006-11-10 22:11:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You r wise not to get into a relationship on the rebound. but u can go out to lunch or dinner or a movie, without getting involved. Tell him u r just looking for friendship at this point and if he is interested, he will see ur point of view and respect it. Time will heal ur pain of ur broken romance, its happened to most everyone.Sooner or later u will want to start dating again when u meet Mr right. Until them, don`t give up on everyone, keep all lines open and keep it casual at this point. Good luck.
2006-11-10 22:16:22 · answer #2 · answered by flamingo 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow sorry incredibly. i in my opinion think of you should pass away that dude. i think of you deserve better. Weed+Alcohol= homicide. U fortunate all you get carry of is a beating. some situations whilst adult males behave like that, this is only to push you away coz could be he's seeing some one. yet for this reason that's because of the alcohol and the medicine. yet once you go away him, whilst he comes back to his sober innovations and realizes which you're long previous, he will come back to you begging and you will truthfully comprehend he nonetheless loves you yet whilst he does not and nonetheless strikes on. that would desire to point you had grow to be a discomfort in his existence. the solid existence you have had with him, only approximately each and every guy adjustments whilst he falls in love. this is stated as making an impact however the authentic guy will ultimately pop out. it continuously does. after all you're able to desire to even had a greater existence with some one else.
2016-10-21 21:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to spend some time on yourself, and allow things to heal. Either that or go back with the ex cause it sounds like you still love him.
-NmD!
2006-11-10 22:05:35 · answer #4 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over your ex b/f first no good starting a new relationship while you still have feelings for ex/b/f
2006-11-10 22:06:19 · answer #5 · answered by hurts so good 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that you suffer from low self esteem. You don't need a guy to make you happy. l think you need to love yourself first. l think your ego was dented from your previous relationship. Try looking in the mirror and saying l like me as l am........................
2006-11-10 22:09:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just like i said to the same question you just asked...
if your freinds are pushy, insist that you go on group dates, that way you aren't pressured into doing anything you don't want to do.
2006-11-10 22:04:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are ready you'll know. Take all the time you need
2006-11-10 22:06:25 · answer #8 · answered by CareBear 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋