My husband asked me a scenario question last night.
"if a gorgeous girl threw her self at me and wanted to have sex and i did, would you dismiss it?"
does that sound like he has had sex with another women or is he thinking about it?
2006-11-10 21:55:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
To me this sounds like he's curious about what your reaction will be "if" he did. So that would mean that he's just thinking about it.
2006-11-10 22:02:54 · answer #1 · answered by jdhs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you'd be happy to answer if he let's you know the reason for asking. Then ask him if a gorgeous rich man did the same would he dismiss it?
2006-11-11 06:12:42 · answer #2 · answered by denise b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being that he is a guy he is either just dreaming about it, or wanting to get you jealous. My suggestion is to do out and buy some halloween wigs (while they are on sale) and maybe some cutesty costumes and play dress up. You need to spice up the bedroom honey, other wise you may end up alone. Good Luck
2006-11-11 06:09:49 · answer #3 · answered by Someonesmommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to accuse your husband from just this bit of conversation, but it certainly is an odd topic to bring up. maybe he's thinking about it, maybe he's done it, maybe it was just a throw-away thing. you need to talk to him and work it out or it will drive you mad. if my husband said it, i'd be really suspicious, but i'd ask him straight out. can't see why any man would just drop this into a conversation without a reason.
2006-11-11 06:00:53 · answer #4 · answered by mhm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound promising either way.
I would answer his question with a question in combination with a very hard and meaningful look. "Why are you asking me this? Is there something you would like to admit to?"
2006-11-11 06:03:10 · answer #5 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him the very question you are asking us. Its your marriage that's on the line. Don't jump to a conclusion until you talk with him
2006-11-11 06:00:39 · answer #6 · answered by CareBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be, but i wont lie, sometimes I'll ask bazaar questions like that to test people, or just to get some kind of reaction out of them...but just in case, I would tell him that if anything like that had happened and you found out..which of course you would...you would chop his manhood into millions of pieces.
2006-11-11 06:00:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him no, I'd dismiss our marriage in a divorce.
2006-11-11 09:32:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thinking about it... Probably been approached by someone... And it is intriguing him...
Ask him to invite her round for a 3some... And then you'll know... But say it in a REALLY matter-of-fact way... And see what he does...
2006-11-11 05:59:24 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he probably is thinking about it, if he would have already slept w/ her i doubt he'd be talking about it....whatever the case if he were my husband he would be in trouble for just asking lol
2006-11-11 06:00:43 · answer #10 · answered by iluvlennon03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋