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I'm 21 yrs old girl. I had a good family and a good job. But something happened to me. One time when i was in the chat room i meet this guy he is double my age. We get along and i trusted him. We talk for almost 4 months until one day i found out that he already had a relationship with other woman who happens to be his live in partner. The woman is about 60 now and he said they are living together for 13 yrs but they are not sexually active for 5 yrs and both of them dont love each other and he is willing to leave her for me. Do you think its true? Do i have to forgive him? or Just move on?thanks

2006-11-10 21:43:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

15 answers

if he hid something from u in the past, or lied to u in the past, then u know u gotta watch out from him. and the fact that hes been living with someone for 13 yrs and then says he's willing to leave her for you, i'd say its a lie. with do respect to you and him, but i do think if u live with someone for a year and then try to leave them for a person u know for 5 months, thats just a cheater right there, and thats only a year im talkin about, imagine 13 yrs! i know it must be hard for u to 4 get about him, but honey you got to see gather the facts and see how hes willing to leave this person of 13 yrs together regardless of how old she is or who she is, but if he does leave her dont you think one day he'll do the same to you?
but in the end it all comes back to you, do what ur heart is telling you =D

God bless you. good luck hope this helped

2006-11-10 22:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by ♪Þearl♪ 4 · 1 0

Find a guy that will be honest with you. This guy has already disrespected you by lying to you. If he's done it once, he's likely to do it again and you don't know what else he may be hiding from you either. If he's living with a woman who's 60, how old is he? As you are 21 it would also benefit you to find someone to grow old with not watch someone grow old. Let him go he sounds like too much of a dirty old man.

2006-11-11 07:31:38 · answer #2 · answered by dirkthesmirk 3 · 0 0

First of all are you really love him, if you aren't so just move on.
But if you love him , I have to tell you this he is double your age everyone need a live partner that can take care of them for a long time, mature and can take care of you. But when you love someone you have forgive him as he were and accept him for what he was.

2006-11-11 09:08:22 · answer #3 · answered by Mystery 2 · 0 0

Do I thinkl you should the rest of your life seeing a married man who will never leave his wife but is quite happy having you as his loyal faithful girlfriend. Forget him you still young and move on.
But you could be missing out on something wonderful here and relationships can go wrong and it can hurt, So give it a ago, if you can. Don't trust him.

2006-11-11 05:57:56 · answer #4 · answered by etb128 1 · 0 0

forget about him, he is too old for you and he is a cheat if you contioun with him he will do the same thing he did to his woman that he spend 13 yrs, you are young and can have a young guy like you who will love you so much and care about you angle, forget him.........

2006-11-11 05:53:43 · answer #5 · answered by angle 1 · 0 0

it might be true. he kept this a secret for some reason. forgive him if you feel like it. but he doesnt have to tell you all this does he? move on. you have a lot of time to find yourself a nice guy, you have a future infront of you.

2006-11-11 07:43:58 · answer #6 · answered by Bella 6 · 0 0

please move on girl ....is he trying to recapture his youth through you?
no way turn around an keep on walking, if he could not tell you the truth from the start what else could this person hide....
better to be safe and happy
and have you spoke to this other woman she may feel completely different to what he says don't ruin her life style along with yours...

2006-11-11 05:52:52 · answer #7 · answered by luna 2 · 0 0

move on, this type of relationship will very rarely work out. Just forget him.

2006-11-11 05:48:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Move on.

2006-11-11 05:54:54 · answer #9 · answered by Fahim . 3 · 0 0

I agree with everyone here, move on, it's not worth your time and effort.

2006-11-11 05:56:45 · answer #10 · answered by greylady 6 · 0 0

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