Ok, I had surgey last year for an undescendent testicle the doctors had to go in my stomach and bring it down where it was supposed to be...Ok, I'm 15 and my penis hasn't grown from when I was a little kid (e.g. 4 years old) I am too shy and shame to tell my mom and my dad isn't around and I have a female doctor so it's kinda shameful for me to try and tell her, I don't know what to do....Please help me...tell me step by step what to do & how to do it!!!!
2006-11-10 21:10:03 · 17 answers · asked by Ryan C 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
See a male doctor.
2006-11-10 21:15:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I also had an undescended testicle that was brought down when I was 28. Unfortnately it was damaged and I lost it. So one has functioned for me well. You may be late entering puberty and 15 is late but not abnormal. You need to tell your doctor next time you are in that you think you are a late starter and say why. Penis not developing, not much pubic hair, no voice change things like that. You should then ask to have your testosterone level checked. If it is lower than normal you could get testosterone shots monthly and that will give you a boost into puberty. I know having a female doctor can be embarrassing for a man but just get brave and handle it. She is not going to do anything to purposely embarrass you. You will also have to bring you mom along on this since she will have to take you to the doctor. In the mean time I suggest you increase your masturbation, do it as often as you want. That will help the testosterone a little. It will also help your reproductive system and there is nothing wrong with masturbating and it is not a sin. Just keep it private and personal. Good luck
2006-11-11 08:54:10 · answer #2 · answered by Geo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So your descendent is now an undescendent and you have a question about his testicle going into his stomach rather than where it was supposed to be. That is very astute for a 15-year old. Why in the world would you be she and shame about telling your mom? And why isn't your dad around? Is he a square? Probably so. Fremale doctors know what a testicle is, believe me. So ask her. But she will want to know why you are talking about a descendent's testicle and not your own. Now this is important, son, you should not be talking about some 4-year old kid's 'thing.' That is none of your business. Tell his mother or father that he has one the size of a 15 year old boy and that you are concerned.
That is the best I can do about answering your question. I hope we learned a little something today.
2006-11-10 21:26:03 · answer #3 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you asking how you should tell your female doctor about the fact your penis hasnt grown?
Or are you asking if theres some way to lengthen it?
First, if youre not comfortable talking openly to your female doctor, you can always request a male doctor. Thats never a problem.
As far as the size, and not growing. I think mine stopped getting bigger in about 7th grade. where Im pretty much within the normal size range 5-7 inches.
There are pumps out there that are supose to stretch the penis -- dont know if they work. But remember this..the first few inches of a womans vagina are most sensitive. You have a tongue and fingers to use when you start getting sexually active. Theres even a sex toy that will allow you to insert your penis into it, and it basically acts like a bigger penis. unfortunately it would be for her pleasure only as the rubber around your penis would not allow you to feel her.
But remember this....the most erotic point on a womans body isnt her vagina,....its her mind, and then her heart...learn to capture those, and a small penis wouldnt matter to her.
Hope it helps
2006-11-10 21:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by writersbIock2006 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My father speaking, age 57........his words are.....First of all your mother loves you and she is your best physician. She helps you with everything else that ails you, doesn't she. You shouldn't be embarrassed by telling her your situation. I had a similar experience except mine was the opposite. I had a testical drop lower than the other. The first person I went to was my mom. About your penis, it may just be a matter of hormones and remember that it WILL GROW when it gets excited. If you are embarrassed to tell your female dr., please find a new, male, doctor.
So number 1...talk to your mom.
She'll take it from there I'm sure. And I'm also sure she will advise you well. Keep the faith and good luck. You may just be a late bloomer. Things will work out.
2006-11-18 15:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me...every guys' growth through puberty starts at a different age.
When you get an erection, is it larger?
You can simply ask your doctor when she thinks you'll go through puberty. It may be delayed in you because of the undescended testicle.
I do know I had a friend when I was young who also had the same situation as you. He went through puberty a little later, but everything with him was normal...it just took a little longer.
2006-11-10 21:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one do not be ashamed of your body you are who you are. As for your problem talk to your mom. I have had my parents in my life all the time. I have always went to my mom with a problem. Yes even with a sex problem. Now what you need to do is go to your mom tell her your having a male problem that you fell more comfortable talking to a male doctor about. Yes there is pumps out there to use but you have got to be 18 to buy and at your age it could cause damage to your penis. Puberty may have something to do with it to. Go to goggle and see what they say there is a lot of straight forward answers there for your questions. Remember your mom brought you into this world and carried you for 9 mths. I am sure she will understand. But just do not get down on yourself for something that is not your fault. Go your mom and talk she may know more then you think mine did.
2006-11-11 17:04:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think there is something to be ashamed off! If you think you are having somekind of a medical problem then you shouldnt let this shyness thing get in the way! you gotta face it! go and have it checked it by your doctor whether its a male doctor or a female doctor
2006-11-10 21:16:53 · answer #8 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Child, I do not understand exactly what your problem is. However, I can assure that there could be nothing abnormal in it. I further suggest that you should freely express your difficulties to your mom, if dad is not around. She will show understanding and help you get the necessary medical attention.
2006-11-10 21:15:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus, tell your mom, suck it up now and just suffer the embarrasment. The longer you wait, the worse you'll feel and it could affect your ability to live a normal life. Tell her right now, Im not trying to be mean, I'm being very serious.
2006-11-10 21:14:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋