i need an abortion. Help. I don't know where to start.?

Answer 1

Sorry, I just couldn't resist looking at your past questions and you didn't seem to want an abortion 3 weeks ago. Can I ask what changed your mind and why you say you need one not want one?

Answer 2

Do not be influenced by the persons who tell you not to get an abortion, this is your body, this is your decision, life starts when we are born not before, there are enough confused people in this world, wait till you really feel that you would like a child, in the intrim locate family planing and make an appointment, hope your boyfriend can be there for you, if not take your girlfriend, its not as daunting as some would have us beleive.
Ian

Answer 3

Wow -- everyone seems to have an opinion about you even considering abortion, don't they? I'd suggest calling 1-800-772-9100. The people there have factual, unbiased information about your options and will support you whatever you choose to do.

Hang in there. The most important thing about this decision is that it has to be YOUR choice -- nobody else's.

Answer 4

I can only imagine the anguish you're going through. Where do you live? Its probably a lot easier to say than to do for the majority of people who have answered your question by telling you not to do it- they have no grasp of what it is to be in such a diffiult situation- and at the end of the day its a woman's righ to say what she does and does not wangt to happen within her own body!

Don't listen to them. Do what YOU feel is right.

If you go to www.abortion.com I think you'll be able to find some answers. I wish you all the best- whether you go through with things or not. Remember its your body!

Answer 5

Based on other questions you have posted, I'm guessing that you are now about 12 weeks pregnant. Are you aware that at twelve weeks, your baby can suck her thumb, get the hiccups, frown and smile, grasp an object placed in her palm, curl her toes, turn a somersault, and feel pain? Here are photos and video of what your baby looks like right now:

http://www.lifeissues.org/ultrasound/11weeks.htm
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm

and photos and video of aborted babies who are about the same age as your baby:

http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures_2.html
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html

Here's information on your baby's ability to feel pain:

http://www.advocatesfortheinnocent.com/fetalpain.html

and personal stories from mothers who aborted their children:

http://abortiontv.com/Words/truestoriesfrom-mothers.htm
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-G-2-testimony.html

and information about how dangerous abortion is for you:

http://afterabortion.info/complic.html
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html

You would never let someone hurt your already born child, right? Then how will you live with yourself if you let someone hurt the baby inside you, your child's little brother or sister? Your baby feels safe and warm right now, and is innocently depending on you, his or her momma, for love and protection. Don't let your baby down. If you need help of any kind, please go to a crisis pregnancy center. All of their services are free and confidential, and they can provide you with referrals for financial, legal, medical, and housing assistance, or whatever you need. You can find one near you by calling 1-800-395-HELP, or by visiting:

http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp

Keep in mind that people who are in the business of SELLING abortion are not going to provide you with unbiased information. Planned Parenthood makes millions of dollars every year by killing babies like yours. They are skilled salespeople and are very deceptive.

Please, get all the facts and protect your baby and yourself. You can do the right thing.

One additional note: the 800 number given by "Auntie Rae" below is for the National Abortion Federation, an organization made up of abortionists. People who make a living selling abortions are not very likely to be truthful with you.

Answer 6

Why do you need in abortion? That child is also a life. Think for it will affect your life forever. We cannot undo what we do - by taking the life of another. Their is eternity to consider. Give the child up and be more careful, if you do not want children. As a mother of 4, children are precious, however they are conceived. And finally to take a life is to give up your own life for eternity. You may not care to hear this - but it is true and I will pray that you may the best the descision for the child and you. Their are statement in the bible that talks about life starting with conception, that to take a life is murder and hell is eternal. call upon the Lord for he hears your cries. God Bless you, Ann

Answer 7

Well Clair B: I'm anti abortion. I was and am a Catholic. There are other ways than killing a baby, yes, killing. From the day that child was conceived it was a human being. No one has the right o give you any names of abortion clinics, they are abetting in the killing of a child.

There are places that will help you, look for them on the Internet or go to the nearest catholic church for help. Please. God be with you.

Answer 8

dear.........
dont do things u will regret for the rest of ur life.
i used to be in ur shoes when i thought i was pregnant i was already paranoid thinking about abortion when i never thought i would ever do that,but i was in a situation when i had no choice, i dont want a baby yet! but i thought again, i should be responsible to whatever happen coz i never forced my self to make love right? and i dont think i can sleep tight at night thinking i just killed someone innocent.. its a mortal sin.... just face ur problems.... love ur child.... i guarantee u if u do that wholehearteadly people will admire u. nevermind the assssholes.

Answer 9

many websites to choose from.....
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/birth-control-pregnancy/abortion.htm

IF you know you are going to have one and are looking for a doctor check out this site:
http://www.abortion.com/

if you are a teenager check out this site:
http://www.teenbreaks.com/abortion/abortionhome.cfm

I know there is a short time-frame when you have to make this decision - just make sure you give yourself the proper time to think all your options through! God Bless you!

Answer 10

don't abort the poor thing.let it live and then let a good person or couple adopt the child if you don't want.I tell you that after looking at the child's face,you will be happy that you did'nt abort it.