Can u stand dat ur partner used to sleep wid smone else???
2006-11-10 20:06:23 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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Anyway....I would be upset that he lied to me. I would not be angry that he had prior sexual relations, just angry that he lied about it. I mean what was the point in lying about that? If anything I would then be very concerned about STDs. If one is going to be so horrible as to lie about ones sex life to the person that they love, one can very easily lie about STDs they may or may not have.
2006-11-10 21:12:59 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should not be a problem. You married the person not the body. If its a big thing for you and you have not discussed it before being getting married, you are being unfair to your partner. If your thought will not pass, it will ruin your marriage that your partner has no means to correct. If you truly your partner, you must love with no limitations. That is what love truly meant. Love will make the world a beautiful place to live in.
Hoping for the best.
2006-11-10 20:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No body perfect in this world.
As well as he can be trust, love you so much as a wife, and responsible to you, why you should care about that. Almost people change their attitude after they've married. That because from that time they have to face the real world (family world), not some dreaming world before. It's no need to cover their attitude, and make a fake nice romance, only love and responsibilities still left behind.
Don't think too much of your unluckiness (may be.......) but try to face the future with your beloved husband. I think it's better for you. Take care.
2006-11-10 20:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by eddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely it is very unfortunate and unbearable.
If she is not virgin because of the unfortunate situations which were not under her control u should be sympathetic to her and live a happy life. After all human beings are also a type of animals who got the biological needs. Hence try to be happy with what u got and continue with her.
2006-11-10 20:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she had told this before marriage that she is not vergin , then there should not be any problem.
But if she had lie before marriage that she is vergin, then the guy should fell cheated and definetely the realtionship will be in problem , but the same can be saved.
If no discussion , then the guy should consider it is his own fault not to clear the same, and for that he cn't balem to others.
If you are fool , that does not mean that other party also will be fool.
2006-11-10 21:32:00 · answer #5 · answered by swa_rup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A physical relationship of the past cannot and should not effect your present. What is more important is his commitment to the present relationship with you, as long as that is there why should the some deeds done in the past have anything to do today. you should always differentiate the physical with the emotional, that is more important
2006-11-10 21:51:08 · answer #6 · answered by abbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No body insists on a certificate be obtained to prove the virginity.
It is purely a trust. That trust does not permit any of partner breach the conduct of one.
2006-11-10 21:06:15 · answer #7 · answered by pitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should not matter as long as he/she is faithful after marraige, provided there is likeness between the two.An independent life before marraige should not be a hindrance for a committed life after marraige.
2006-11-10 20:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by dyuti_cal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck. Consider, you got an experienced partner.
2006-11-10 20:38:26 · answer #9 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course,we don't live in the 19 century when if you weren't a virgin no one would marry you....times have change and so have we...now it matters how much experience you have in the bedroom,not if you are a virgin
2006-11-10 20:31:23 · answer #10 · answered by Cristina A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋