What do u raelly mean by secret relation of a male & a female? Is it sin? If yes, why?

Question

I believe that relation between to adult in any term can't be sin if they feel happy. Agree?

Answer 1

I disagree.

Judeo-Christian tradition has taught for thousands of years:
1. Single people should be celibate.
2. Married people should be faithful to each other (adultery is wrong).

The Catholic Church recognizes the power of sex when it teaches, "Sexuality affects all aspects of the human person in the unity of his body and soul."

Fornication, sex between an unmarried man and an unmarried woman, is contrary to their human dignity and the dignity of human sexuality.

Chastity means the successful integration of sexuality within the person. A chaste person's body and spirit lives in unity and opposes any behavior that would impair that unity.

The purpose of sex is to bring a husband and wife closer and to create human life.

With love in Christ.

Answer 2

The idea of sin is relative. What maybe a "sin" to one is not a "sin" to another. We grow in different cultures and beliefs. Eating meat maybe considered healthy to various cultures but not to others..and we respect each other's beliefs because we are rationale beings able to think for ourselves. In this context, the question that you should ask yourself is : Is it the truth you hold dear, in short do you truly love the person? if yes, then it is a valid one. Then ask the second question: Is anyone made miserable by your actions? If yes, then remember karma, you sure don't want the same thing happening to you , do you? The third and final question would be: Will you be able to live with yourself if you proceed with this plan. If you can, then by all means proceed, but if not , then think twice about it. In the end, it is yourself whom you will live with, and not with anybody else. May you decide correctly, mansur.

Answer 3

OK, if you were in an exclusive (not seeing anyone else) relationship or married and your partner started to see someone else on the sly (in secret), how would you feel? Happy?????

I doubt it. But then, they are happy so that makes it all right according to your logic. So you would have no right to get upset and let them just go on in their infidelity. . .

Because that is what it is. . .infidelity. And it's wrong! It's bad enough when the cheating partner admits to seeing someone else. That hurts, but at least you know and can move on. But to have one sneak around in secret???

In my book that person is a coward and a total a-hole.

If the relationship is a healthy one, there is no need for secrecy.