Why is it, that the people we allow ourselves to be the most vulnerable with, are the people who hurt us the most?
2006-11-10 18:08:53 · 6 answers · asked by saucylilbrat43 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
your answer is in your own question. you get hurt because you let yourself be emotionally exposed(vulnerable) to others. you open the door (your emotions)when becoming exposed(vulnerable)and in situations like that, the end is not always a happy one.....
2006-11-10 18:17:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this relationship one that you feel or know is bad for you? Your heart may get in the way of what your head is telling you? Making healthy choices are hard for you? You just may be addicted to a toxic person or relationship. You already suspect something is wrong due to asking this question. Think about how you feel. Put compatibility, values, and honesty ahead of emotional attachments. You're happiness is important.
2006-11-10 18:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by sexy_lop 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Human nature..........
We girls/women love those bad boys who just run all over us. What is really sad???? We take their nasty attitudes and ways time and time again. It is like we are either drawn to them and/or just are too scared to do without them.
Could it be the sex?????
No one will ever know the real reasons why we torture ourselves. Perhaps we are just gluttons for punishment.
Uuuugghhhhh!!!!!!!
My apologies on my response, I have based my answer on the assumption that you are speaking of a male.
Please correct me if I am wrong, by placing a comment in the appropriate area.
2006-11-10 18:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by Staci C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
words are frequently drowned out, and there are risks in touch in making a actual distinction. regrettably, what we expect of of as "making a distinction" would desire to truthfully be a made of this propaganda, and something that may not common is often drowned out. We provide greater capability to those we anticipate to "characterize" us, and then whilst issues go incorrect, we % a similar people, and that they make certain that they are the "appropriate" applicants. additionally, in case you have spoken to somebody with an IQ of a hundred, and comprehend that a million/2 of people are decrease than that, this is not too remarkable that a lot of people will stick to others with out thinking themselves.
2016-10-21 21:38:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we put up barriers with everyone else. Those we let in only have to flick a wrist to hurt us. The others would have to set off a nuclear bomb to cause a scratch on our hearts.
2006-11-10 18:16:59 · answer #5 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what? that is booty, thats not true, maybe for you and the weak, but for the smarter people, even in the rare chance youre vulnerable, its with your most trustworthy family member or best friend
2006-11-10 18:31:03 · answer #6 · answered by ceesteris 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋