I Feel That Im The Most Cursed Person in this World?

Question

Most people has one or more of the following:
- wealth
- intelligence
- happiness
- dream or career
- a good family relation.
But most of the time, I felt that I have nothing of any one of this. Things are getting worst. I can consentrate because of this.

*Wealth
- We have tried everything but still, we are poor. We have no savings in the bank.

*Intelligence, Dream and Career
- They say am good, then why my grades are falling when I thinks of anything that I cannot get. There is always a better person that can defeat me.

*Family
- it has been destroyed 6 years ago due to misunderstanding.

*Happiness
- I already lost 3 bestfriends now, one in 1996, 2000 and 2004. And the person that I want to be with is so much different to me. We want to play computer games but we have different views in wines, beers and other forms of gimmicks. He joins other people for this matter, which makes me jealous. I desperate to have a bestfriend that I like and will likes me forever.

Answer 1

I understand how you feel. Last year my boyfriend was mobilized to Kuwait and I was sent to San Diego for annual training. I didn't want to go but went anyway. Two days after I got there, two of my friends/coworkers were murdered at my work as well as 2 police officers and a state employee. Three months later, a family friend and his wife were fatally shot in his home. My mom was diagnosed with cancer during this month. Christmas came along with a 5 day bout of the worst stomach flu I have ever had in my life. Then in January, the business that I worked at with my friends who died went under. I loved that job.

During this time, my boyfriend and I had broken up but were still talking to each other and his mother would watch my little girl occasionally. On St. Patrick's Day, he called to tell me that she collapsed of a major heart attack and died. He came home from Kuwait and we managed to repair our relationship. I got pregnant about two weeks later. Things went well for a while and I moved in with him. My dad called at the end of July to tell me that his best friend who had been battling cancer for the last two years took his bottle of pain killers and disappeared. They found his body by a lake 8 days later. He overdosed on painkillers because he was tired of fighting off his illness. He had been a friend of my dad's for 35 years.

My fiance and I were supposed to get married in August but I called the wedding off two weeks before the wedding because I found out that he was cheating on me OVER and OVER again with random strangers that he was meeting on the internet. I moved out of the apartment and relocated to another state. Then my 3 year old daughter said some things to me that led me to believe that he had been molesting her. I filed a police report and took her to three expert therapists, all of whom confirmed my suspicions. This jerk is trying to establish paternity of the unborn child that I am carrying in my womb and take full custody and the courts are doing nothing to stop him because official charges have not been brought against him.

Now I am 8 months pregnant with a child that I am not incredibly enthusiastic about bringing into this world because of the legal problems that are sure to follow, I am broke and alone in a state where I know NO ONE, and I am heavily medicated on anti-depressants because I feel like killing myself every other hour or so.

Life could always be much worse. If I can live through this, so can you.

Answer 2

you are desperate for a good friend . Jesus wants you as his best friend so much so that he died for you. Crack open the bible this weekend and get to know your creator. start as soon as you get up reading Genesis one and see how far you can get.

your finances are going nowhere time to head to library and crack open these books Tightwad Gazette volume one two and three. you have a computer so take some free online career tests that will help you determine what career you would like to devote your time to . type in free books in a search engine and go get the gutenburg site which gives out thousands of free books daily to download . read a classic.

family try to back track saying sorry can open doors to family. remember they love each other in spite of a lot of things and everyone probably is regretting the spit as much as you are
Happiness comes from doing Gods will spend time learning what that is for you.
God bless have a good live

Answer 3

You and me both.
The only thing I can say is to hang in there.
I also am not in the best of positions in life, and when I seem to be finally getting ahead, the big boot kicks me down again.
I can only move forward, trying and hoping myself towards my dreams.
I think that for people like us life is a conquest. We (for some reason) have chosen a life of hardship, and it's our duty to overcome; no matter what is staring us down.
It's the reason people like us are living. Others are learning privilege and probably the consequences of having everything handed to them. Just know that you will make it. Even if it takes all you got (which at times it will), you'll pull through.
Have faith, not in someone else, but in yourself.
Good Luck!

Answer 4

God giveth and God taketh away. You may need to find your place in the world. Once you realize that you shouldn't accept defeat or the attacks from the enemy *Satan*, the better off you will be. You shouldn't claim that you are "cursed". Self fulfilled prophecy.

Answer 5

MATEY LIFE LIKEs A ROLLAR COASTER BUT BELIEVE IN YOURSELF OKAY.an love yourself too
an good friends are hard to find so when you do find a friend hold onto them love them (platonic)
hugs an friendship an a bit of luck peace matey