My boyfriend of three years and I just started having sex. I have a regular 28 day cycle. We use condoms CORRECTLY (without any rips/tears or leaks, and I test them all afterwards...) EVERY TIME we have sex. He NEVER ejaculates inside of me.
I got my period on Oct 31 (Day 1), and the last day of bleeding was on November 7th (Day 7). We had sex with a condom that night, and he did not ejaculate inside of me. Pre-*** was caught in the tip of the condom and the condom did NOT rip/tear/leak. However, I am still scared that pregnancy could occur. I understand the risks involved. We waited three years until I felt I was ready -- I thought I could handle the risk but it turns out I'm really not ready. I am 21 years old. We are going to stop having intercourse -- but I need to know the risk of pregnancy considering my situation. I've looked everywhere & can't find a same scenario.
2006-11-10 17:41:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I should add -- that he DID NOT ejaculate BEFORE we had sex... (he had urinated before we had sex)....
2006-11-10 17:43:47 · update #1
Even with proper use of a condom there is always a chance, there can be a undetectable pin type hole. If you have missed your period take a test. I am so happy to hear someone that does not want to become pregnant take action & not wait & have a abortion.
2006-11-10 17:47:56 · answer #1 · answered by notAminiVANmama 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, good job on knowing what your limits are! Now, for the odds. Since you are only three days from the end of your last period, you should not be ovulating yet. Precum caught in the condom, not likely to have gotten into your vagina. If I am hearing you right, and he pulled out before ejaculating as well, the chances are even more slim. Used correctly, condoms are 98% effective even when the man does ejaculate while still inside. I would guess that you are looking at a less than 1% chance of being pregnant.
2006-11-10 17:49:20 · answer #2 · answered by makin_the_same_mistakes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your on a 28 day cycle having sex on the 7th day will be fine particularly with using a condom and no ejaculation. If your so worried I would abstain from days 9-20 just for your piece of mind then fine upto the day of your period, u may have sex also during your period without the risk of pregnancy but as you will understand not everyones cup of tea (understandable).
Don't stop having sex he's waited 3 years don't suddenly take this well earned privilege away because of your insecurities, enjoy it while your young or there'll never be a right time. Relax and enjoy stick with the condoms, and abstaining over the fertile period (9-20) is more than safe it would probably be ok 10 - 17 risk period, but your obviously very worried. Take care and enjoy:)
2006-11-11 00:12:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is pretty much no chance that you could be pregnant. If you are not willing to trust a condom, then you should go on the pill. To be even safer, you could even use the pill AND a condom.
But for now, stop worrying! Stress and worry can make you skip a period. I know, my periods are very weird when I'm stressed.
You'll be fine! Go to a gyno and get on the pill, or get the shot, or some other form of bc. Then you'll be able to relax and enjoy sex!
2006-11-14 03:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not worry, you should be alright with a normal 28 day cycle you should not be fertile until days 12 to 16 anyway.
worrying will only make you miss a period and mess up your cycle anyhow
may be now would be a good time to go on the pill, remembering to still use condoms for the first 14 days,
2006-11-10 21:02:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always a risk of pregnancy occurring although using a condom correctly will decrease this risk significantly. Him urinating prior to sex will not make any difference as urine is different to sperm.
I would say that if the condom stayed intact and you removed it straight afterwards and disposed of it, you should be ok but if you're really worried have a chat with your GP. Noone on here can tell you if you're pregnant or not!
2006-11-10 18:01:00 · answer #6 · answered by kpk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not pregnant. What you are is nervous because you are not ready for sex.
That is an okay thing and I am sure your boyfriend is a good guy if he waited three years he must feel a lot for you.
Is it you that is unsure in your relationship? Take time to be truthful to each other because the communication you share now is a way to tell how it would be if you were married.
2006-11-10 17:48:50 · answer #7 · answered by dbzgalaxy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The chances of you getting pregnant on day 7 are tiiiiiny! I don't see why you should stop having sex with your boyfriend. Relax, use a condom, and enjoy it.
2006-11-10 19:20:16 · answer #8 · answered by Martin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he did not ejaculate inside you then you can't be pregnant, because that is how the sperm travel. However if he did in the condom and then removed it and entered you after that, then yes you can.
2006-11-10 17:51:17 · answer #9 · answered by Patti M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your chances are 99.999% against being pregnant right now... You usually ovulate 13-15days after the first day of your last period.. (start counting day 1 from the first day of period, and day 13 could be considered unsafe). you also were protected... I highly highly doubt you are pregnant.. but having said this,, there are always rare, extreme chances 1 in a million..
2006-11-10 17:47:58 · answer #10 · answered by Mintee 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋