we fight about everything, there is no spark, and she never wamts to have sex. i do everything for her...cook, clean, take her out, have fun. but nothing works. im dont feel the connect we once shared.....any advice?
2006-11-10 17:38:03 · 14 answers · asked by FunniUglyGuy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is no connect, how long has this been going on,do you think it is worth saving. we i thing that you should give each other some air, you separate for a while unlit some one come to their right mine, It no way that you fight all the time there no sex you do everything for her she do nothing for you. You are giving 100% and she is giving nothing, Get over it and go and find someone to put in your life that going to be health for you and love you the way you would like to be loved.
2006-11-10 17:50:55 · answer #1 · answered by I am women 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to sound accusatory, but is there a possibility that you may have done something for her to treat you this way? My husband and I are going through a similar situation as far as the arguing, no spark, and never wanting to have sex. But this is because he cheated on me multiple times. Things changed after he cheated on me on Mother's Day. So maybe there's a reason for this change in your relationship. You two need to sit down and talk about everything that's bothering you.
2006-11-11 16:09:31 · answer #2 · answered by globalsoule 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're a good man. I wouldn't know if she's the "problem" or you are, but it does sound like it's over. I hope there aren't any kids. Even so, my kids were glad when my husband and I finally broke up - they were sick of the misery in the house. I waited 10 years in unhappiness, and I wish I'd left much sooner (although I waited until my youngest was 16). There's someone out there for you, someone who will love you as you love her. Don't wait too long!
2006-11-11 01:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by Miz Teri 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit doing everything for her, that is irritating as all get out. Play it more cool and be more of a challenge, girls love that, they do not want a door mat. Talk to her about your relationship and get everything out in the open but still let her know you are a person too.
2006-11-11 01:42:33 · answer #4 · answered by sugarmonkey47 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may not be dead, but it definitely has a virus. Try talking to her about the situation. If you want to salvage the marriage, maybe marriage counseling or talking to a clergymember may help. Good luck either way.
2006-11-11 02:17:28 · answer #5 · answered by rosey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bother, she's got a problem. Do less for her, perhaps she'd appreciate you then - although I doubt it. Do you know why she doesn't want sex ? Tie her to the bed and give her a good sorting out, it could be fun.
2006-11-11 02:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know if your wife is going through a hormane changing period or if she is depressed due to your fights.these things can make her sex drive low and if shes like me ---if you fight with her and shes emotional---after a while you all of a sudden be good and ask for sex!!!!!!!!!! that will never happen. try to come to good relations. give her time to come out wait and hold your sex drive... once she grts your trust and luv she'll come back to you.
2006-11-11 01:47:54 · answer #7 · answered by kirtik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you guys should get help before you think about leaving her. sometime woman go though this changes. trust me on this. i am a woman and i have this mood swing and my husband cant stand it. but he put up with me. also you took vows for better or worse. so i would talk to her seriously or ask her let get help. if that doesnt work then maybe you guys should go your different way. so good luck and i hope my advise help you.
2006-11-11 01:54:27 · answer #8 · answered by Melda R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would talk with her...something is definitely up...although i wouldnt throw in the towel just yet...just see what is bothering her...it may be something at work or something else more serious...just talk, reconnect. thats the first start.
2006-11-11 01:42:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is taking you for granted, Shake things up and bit and see what happens..
2006-11-11 02:02:32 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋