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I really need help, Im 16 and i have had unprotective sex, and I'm worry of getting pregnant. I haven't got my period for the last 5 days yet and I'm totally worried. I've been feeling kinda sick lately as well, coughing alot , does that mean im pregnant, i need answers. And I'm afraid to get a check up at the teen clinic because they might call my parents. I need answers, please help.

Thanks alot i really appreciate it.

2006-11-10 17:06:38 · 10 answers · asked by nicol_010193 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Trying to Conceive

10 answers

Planned Parenthood is a bad idea. They basically ruined my life when I was 16, and they kindly offered me an abortion. That made me lose my first baby at 20 weeks of pregnancy, which meant I had to go through labor and deliver a stillborn baby.

If you are pregnant, it is not the end of the world. Adoption is also not so bad, it is painful, but don't fool yourself into thinking that abortion isn't. It creeps up on you years afterward. Adoption is painful, but beautiful I have so many friends(now that I am 20 years past that 16 year old mistake) that are so thankful for the baby they have from a wonderful young girl.

You can get a test at the store that is easy to use for $10 at any store. You should talk to your parents about this. Sex is not that good anyway, right? It is not all that good for women until they hit their late 20's, early 30's. Stop wasting your precious youth doing something that does not benefit you at all. Forget the boys and move on to living life and enjoying your young years. Birth control fails, disease is not prevented by condoms, and life is too short to waste on sex with guys that can't take care of a family.

Best wishes.

2006-11-10 17:20:37 · answer #1 · answered by Krista13 3 · 0 0

Your too young. and that's it, you're afraid.
Anyways, if this is really the first time that your period has been delayed for 5 days, then, might as well, have a check up or take a pregnancy test to make sure whether is it positive or negative. But there are some instances that ladies' period's been irregular. Maybe ur period is just delayed.

2006-11-10 17:13:40 · answer #2 · answered by Diane 2 · 0 0

Well the fact of the matter is that you're stressing about it, stress, not eating/losing weight, gaining too much weight can all make your period late or not come at all...hope this helps. Besides, you won't feel sick this soon if you are pregnant. Just relax and take everything easy. My feelings are, and they sound pretty bitchy, if you had unprotected sex, and you get pregnant, then its your responsibility to bring that baby in the world...and if you can't take care of it, ever heard of adoption!?

2006-11-10 17:34:28 · answer #3 · answered by Freakgrl2004 3 · 0 0

it particularly is conceivable yet no longer likely. Ovulation happens approximately 2 weeks from the date your era is due and you had one 5 days later which might sign you ignored the time once you ought to get pregnant. Even assuming which you're dazzling,and it grew to become into ovulation bleeding, sperm can purely proceed to exist interior the womb for about 3 days. Your bleeding grew to become into 5 days later so which you're able to have ignored concept via 2 days. Your purely risk of being pregnant is that if the bleeding grew to become into easily implantation bleeding- a average bleeding that occurs while the egg will become implanted interior the uterus- yet it particularly is neither a era nor ovulation bleeding. although, your terrific guess is to get a attempt;do no longer take possibilities which incorporate your wellness. once you're a minor, you will get one at planned parenthood. it particularly is illegitimate for them to tell your mum and dad with out your consent. you additionally can attempt a stick(urine/pee) attempt;they even have them on the dollar shops now yet once you're pregnant you will prefer care besides so it particularly is rather useful to bypass to the MD. conversing of wellness and possibilities, the comparable guy that could make you pregnant could provide you HIV/AIDS so be confident to apply risk-free practices the subsequent time till you already know the guy or are married to him. terrific of success to you no count your situations!

2016-10-03 12:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by sather 4 · 0 0

You shouldn't worry for just 5 days. these things happen sometimes. but if you have felt sick these days, it will be better to have a test. and if you were really pregnant , you can get rid of the baby . so don't loose your head. But maybe you need to talk to somebody. Your parents are the best people you can trust.

2006-11-10 17:21:55 · answer #5 · answered by NASSIM A 2 · 0 0

You poor sweetie<
first relax and know that what ever will be will be. You could be pregnant, but at your age you also may also have uterine tissue build up that blocks your period. It could be many things including nerves or poor nutrition.

There are worse things that your parents could deal with. Like losing their daughter. Trust them and speak to your mom. They may blow up, but that is their right as parents. Don't let them talk YOU into ANYTHING that will make you feel rotten later in life okay?

2006-11-10 17:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by dbzgalaxy 6 · 0 0

What I recommend you is to buy one of those pregnancy-testers you can get in any pharmacy. If you continue doubting on this, go to the doctor ASAP. Remeber that kids are not in the world because they asked people for it, it's people's fault. And in this case, you're too young, you should enjoy your youth. God lck, and rememer to get a condom with you wherever you go!!!!

2006-11-10 17:12:44 · answer #7 · answered by The Sorcerer 1 · 0 0

Why are you having unprotected sex if you don't wanna get pregnant?! Go to a planned parenthood, they offer confidential pregnancy testing.

2006-11-10 17:09:54 · answer #8 · answered by julieanthony469 4 · 0 0

You really should talk to your parents. They understand a lot more than you think they do. Your parents love you and will want to do what ever they can to help you. Everything will be okay, everything will work out exactly the way it should, trust me.

2006-11-10 17:14:41 · answer #9 · answered by Lesley C 3 · 0 0

awwww im so sorry but well it sorta depends on when you have your menstaural cycle plus your only suppose to have it once a month.....good luck AND KEEP THOSE LEGS CLOSED!!!

2006-11-10 17:14:52 · answer #10 · answered by *t-a-y-a-* 2 · 0 0

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