so i have a friend. MY BESTFRIEND. and shes been with this guy for over a year now and for the past couple of months ive been buying tests for her. shes used at least 10 and i want to know if all this sex shes been having at 15 is healthy?
2006-11-10 16:24:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I think the unprotected sex she's having is unhealthy! Is she trying to get pregnant??? If so, you need to smack some sense into her. Teenage girls tend to be in La La Land when it comes to having a boyfriend, so I just hope she snaps out of it and comes back to reality where a 15 year old with a baby and no daddy can drastically change your life. She will regret it if she doesn't start protecting herself, not only from pregnancy but from whatever diseases are being passed around. You should not be buying those tests for her because she shouldn't need them at that age! Personally, I don't even think one should even have sex until they're ready for any consequences and 15 year olds are NOT ready for that. I hope you can help her see she can ruin her teen years with one instance of unprotected sex.
2006-11-10 16:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by LIl One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't the best choice she could make but there is nothing you can do to change it. I would tell her that you will not continue to buy her tests but that you will go with her to the health department to get her on some birth control. Being a mother at 16 is not something she wants to do. I am glad she has such a level headed friend to help her out but she is going to end up haveing to take responsibility for her choices one way or another. Better to prevent a pregnancy than to end one, or be a very young, unprepared mother. For the sake of her life and the child she could end up creating she needs some birth control A.S.A.P.- Good Luck- I hope you can get her to listen to reason.
2006-11-11 02:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by therealprinsess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if it is healthy or not, but I am worried about the number of pregnancy tests you are buying. Is she trying to get pregnant? Is she on birth control? is she using condoms? She may not know it now but the worst thing she could do is get pregnant. She is so young, and it will ruin her life. If you are a good friend you should encourage her to get on the pill. She can go to Planned Parent hood. There she can get free exams and free pills. It is totally confidential and they will not tell your parents. Please pass this info on to her.
also she needs to get in the habit of using condoms.
2006-11-10 16:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by jelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please warn your friend as sex at the age of 15 is illegal.
The boy will be charge with rape be it she agrees to have sex with this boy or not.
well everone enjoys sex here and for a teen, the fear of pregnant is definately the biggest worry. So do use a condom and stay away of pregnancy at this age and if she does not want a baby i would definately say use a condom all the time unless you want a child now.
2006-11-10 17:23:47 · answer #4 · answered by yahoomel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really, i'm 16 nearly 17 n i might be pregnant and might be havin a misacrriage, if i new this was gonna happen i would never have slept with my bf yet. but the difference was i'm on the pill and it failed so really its not my fault. so get her on the pill or tell someone before she gets pregnant
2006-11-10 23:55:57 · answer #5 · answered by Holly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having sex at 15 is a problem she is still young..... try to explain to her that you are concerned for her and you are very worried........ even try to get her to talk to a school councillor. it may help
2006-11-10 18:28:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no shes need birth control
2006-11-10 18:19:18 · answer #7 · answered by jordanthegrouch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she needs to be on birth control!!
2006-11-10 16:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by notAminiVANmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not an dshe should be on birthcontrol if she is not wanting to get pregnant.
2006-11-10 16:30:30 · answer #9 · answered by ang. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
. she's a low life
2006-11-10 16:42:16 · answer #10 · answered by THE MOTHERFUCKING PRINCESS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋