I am talking to this girl and we have been talking for about close to a month and she has been feeding me some real good BS like im her world adn she loves ne, adn im her heart adn she needs me and all this. But come to find out she use to date one of my close friends and my close friend told me the same stuff she saying to me she told her. And that they are not together because she's a big time player. That the girl im talking to will use me for waht she want out of me adn go on to the next with no rermorse for how she does people. Now im a very kind-hearted person and VERY gullible, but its like this I like the girl but im not to be used as a fool. Plus i felt as though she was running game but i didnt want to listen to my intuition. Now my question is I am not a mean person how can i break it to her without being mean because im hurt and when im HURTING im a very spiteful person.
2006-11-10 16:22:19 · 3 answers · asked by beautifulpersona 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
She has done things like lie to me about what time she coming home and got off work. Then she wants me to put her on my cell phone line cause her mom is finna turn off her phone, which is what she told my friend to. She is always texting her ex's ans then wehn i ask to see her phone she erase the texts so i cant see what they wrote her. Those are just some of the things.
2006-11-10 17:02:14 · update #1
That's a tough question. I would say that honesty is the best policy. Hovever, you need to be certain that you are being honest with yourself first. Are you sure that she is playing? Has she done anything that would tell you she is just playing?
If you find that you just can't trust her, perhaps you could tell her that you are just not able to maintain a relationship at the level that she deserves. Tell her you wish her the best, but it is time for you to move on. Break ups almost always hurt. You can't make the pain go away completely, but it's nice to try to cause the least amount of damage possible.
2006-11-10 16:34:11 · answer #1 · answered by the guru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just break up with her. But, beware. If she's a player like you say, she's probably gonna try to get you back. Don't let her near you, her hand probably feel great, huh. Stand your ground and be firm. Don't listen to the game she's gonna run.
2006-11-11 08:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by Ha Ha! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No piece of Pus*y is worth all this heartache! It hurts me just reading it! Get out of the Drama Triangle, and don't dwell on this one chick! There are plenty of better people out there who will love and respect you for who you are! You are better than all that drama!
Love and Peace!!
Gregory
2006-11-11 00:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋