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when you reccomend something to someone and they just ignore it,but sometime later come upto you and try telling you about this cool new thing THEY found,only to have you remind them you told them about the same damn thing before >.< oh wait,the "trendy" people like it now,its suddenly valid

2006-11-10 16:13:03 · 8 answers · asked by TheHandThatFeeds 2 in Society & Culture Other - Society & Culture

Psychic Cat,its as Caper said,if a so called friend or whatever comes back telling you about something as if they found it,but is something you told THEM about then its just plain rude,disrespectful too as it means they didnt listen to you even enough to remember that you had told them this before. Stress? lol. Ive never get stressed,seriously. I just think people should value others a bit more and this behaviour i have mentioned is total proof that someone would rather take the word of the crowd rather than a good friend.

2006-11-11 04:29:46 · update #1

8 answers

I really hate that crap. And it infuriates me. I once read that something that is common to every human being is that we want to be valued. When someone totally ignores what I've said, and thinks it's so cool when they find out about it somewhere else later, or, when the bozos "discover" it themselves and have no recollection that I was the one that told them about it, it is such a de-valuing experience. It makes me angry, it makes me want to do ANYTHING to get them to give me some credit. And the sad thing is, it happens all through life, not just when you're young. The only thing I can do is try to never dismiss people in my life, and to value what they say.

2006-11-10 16:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by Caper 4 · 0 0

For goodness sake! How little it takes to annoy some people! What's the big deal? Is it just that you NEED the credit? & then you even bother to tell-them-you-told-them. How old are you? 3 going on nine? Watch out or you're going to get high blood pressure or a stroke or something, if someone does something REALLY MEAN. (You will also develop a very unpleasant look on your face.) Grouse-grouse-grouse

2006-11-11 01:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by Psychic Cat 6 · 0 0

It happens all the time and more often if I
want to get a point acrossed to my husband
I'll tell him something a couple times until next week when it
suddenly becomes his great idea .

All thoughts are made up of energy and when we put a thought
or idea out there it is amazing how fast it travels .

If only we learned how to use it for the good of all of us .

2006-11-11 00:21:14 · answer #3 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0 0

yes that does rather annoy me..i just tell them thatr its old and that my mum used to do it or make up something like that to put them down a bit...:D im mean!

2006-11-11 00:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i tell you the truth i just spit those same words not 45 minutes ago to my room mate ,wow'' that's amazing

2006-11-11 00:30:45 · answer #5 · answered by Me 5 · 0 0

enough to make me scream like a banshee at them

2006-11-11 00:20:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

yea they r weird

2006-11-11 00:20:05 · answer #7 · answered by ~electra~ 4 · 0 0

stop recommending...

2006-11-11 00:28:49 · answer #8 · answered by sayasyoulike 4 · 0 0

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