2006-11-10 16:09:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't see why you can't take yourself to the store. If you can't drive I would really encourage you to learn, it is a freedom that every adult needs to experience. You need to become a little more independent and take joy in the fact that he is there, not that he does stuff for you. The question is really too vague to tell what is really going on, but that's just my guess. Good luck.
2006-11-10 16:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by Ferosia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well being a man -I would have to say that you act as if you really don't need him to drive you. You just try other means of getting around and doing things without his help.
his first reaction will be- " Who's the other Guy?
Then he'll become jealous and try to do everything for you..
this will work. I promise
2006-11-10 16:52:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it hurts to have a husband put everyone else first, he sounds as if he has his priorities mixed up. talk to him, tell him how u feel being put last. think he needs to show u more attention and love, and not focus so much on others.
2006-11-10 16:19:39 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know how you feel. If you don't speak up now he will keep doing it. Let him know that you are always supposed to be before him and others. If he doesn't change, keep telling him over and over that he is wrong. Until he sees that you are fed up with it and then he will start dreading that you are going to leave him for someone who does care for you. sometimes you have to scare these men that you are leaving them, in order for them to straighen up. Trust me it works. :)
2006-11-10 16:17:18 · answer #4 · answered by Gemini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you drive yourself. Men like a woman who is independent and not dependent on them. Don't wait around for him go out and do things on your own. When you do that, he will start to notice and start doing things with you
2006-11-10 16:12:45 · answer #5 · answered by OMG I thought I saw A Kitty Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your husband know how this makes you feel. If he is not willing to change this then either you can get used to it or leave him. I would say leave him, if he loves you and wants to be with you he will try and change.
2006-11-10 16:14:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop asking him for anything and take care of it yourself, once he has found out you are independent. He will be wishing had not let you get that way.
2006-11-10 16:23:59 · answer #7 · answered by rjsr40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he may take you for granted. The others he's not so sure about so he feels he has to step up for them.
2006-11-10 16:13:44 · answer #8 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he take other people to the store and did not take you, then there is a problem.... if he did not take other people and you want him to take you... you should be going to the store by yourself.... dun let him be sick of you....
2006-11-11 06:49:41 · answer #9 · answered by Khairudin Bin Salim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should show him that you can do for yourself, alot of times it is a power thing men have to be needed, get my drift?
2006-11-10 16:17:25 · answer #10 · answered by nissdonna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋