I went jogging with my friend Seth the other day. He came out in extreamly tight shorts, which literally defined the shape of his genetalia. He threw me a wink and quoted, " Let's go work these "beotches" out," as he slapped his anus cheeks. He had never acted quite like this before. When we were done he said I looked "ripped" and that he would like to "hang out" inside. Feeling a bit funny about the situation I claimed to have a headache and trodded home. Do you think he was just playing or is my friend attracted to the same sex? I long suspected the Christopher Lowell posters in his room as a sign. Is he just pulling my leg or what? This I even find humorous, but still yet I must know. Believe it or not it's a true story. Please help me find my answer.
2006-11-10 16:06:44 · 24 answers · asked by J 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just Ask him. if he is your good friend do not speculate. if he is a true friend he will tell you the truth.
2006-11-10 16:17:58 · answer #1 · answered by helpme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I really hate it when people say "I have no problem with gay people, BUT"..... or "I have no problem with gay people EXCEPT"... Whatever! just grow up and if you don't like the whole person for who they are, then just leave us alone!!! Why would you treat ANY human being differently? You are no better than us. And yeah, my friends treat me a little different, but that is because I am FABULOUS and they always call me for a good time!!! Grow up.... EDIT: I said that simply because I was proving a point, MR. MAN..... I said you are hypocritical because I do not understand how you can say that you like something for only part of it and not like the rest?? Either you like it or you do not. Make up your mind. Oh, and by the way, I could care less if you like me or not. I am still going to be me and be fabulous at it!!!
2016-03-28 02:01:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the question is are you GAY???
you dont appear too upset ,since you find it humerous.
and you noticed the tight shorts and looked at his crotch noticing his genetalia,that usually is a dead give away.
and then you say he slapped his anus ,now that is a very strange thing to say as if your thoughts were inside the back of his shorts
and what is wrong with ripped or hang out inside
is this more wishfull thinking
personally i think you have one foot outside the closet ,but dont know it yet
next time dont be so coy and have a headache ,and you will know for sure.
but who cares ,be happy that is the main thing
good luck.
2006-11-10 16:16:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Really? Well... you... you can't just base your whole notion of your friends sexuality based on tight running shorts, an *** slap, a colloquialism, and some posters... if it's really that big of a deal to you, ask him. I wouldn't give it too much thought though... A lot of my straight friends act gay sometimes, but that's just playing.
2006-11-10 16:33:13 · answer #4 · answered by Chipper 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The story isn't true, but it is evocative of a gay-curious fantasy, in which the answer you are seeking is to the question behind the question - which is, "how gay am I?" And that answer is, as you must know, "Oh yeah, you're all gay, baby!"
Not that there's anything wrong with that.
2006-11-10 16:55:14 · answer #5 · answered by Grist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like he is gay and that you should satisfy him by giving him what he want. Nothing wront with you going sweet on this guy and fooling around. don't be a drag - be a sport and let him have his way with you. Is he cute & handsome?? If yes, then what's the problem ?????? enjoy him !!!!
Only if he's ugly & doesn't turn you on - then U turn him down. Otherwise be a sport and give in to his desires. Not a big deal.
2006-11-10 16:31:12 · answer #6 · answered by blackbird 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep your guard and check out for any similar 'episodes' such as this in the future. This was the firs time anyway. If it is consistent, then you have to confront him with the million-dollar question and be honest with him. For all you know, he might be simply testing you: he might be thinking that YOU are gay yourself. Whatever the turnout, you just have to be honest. He's your friend anyway. Good luck. ;-)
2006-11-12 02:06:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what anus cheeks are.. But if anyone were to have them and go so far as to slap them, I'm sure only a gay person would.
Administer the test. Tell him you want to go barhopping and pick up "bitches". If he's up for it, he's straight! If he says "No, dude. I'm homo." Then.. well, your friend is probably gay.
Good luck!
2006-11-12 02:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like either (1)he is gay or (2)if he isn't gay then he was just joking around and doesn't know how to be funny. But my guess would be the first item.
2006-11-10 16:10:41 · answer #9 · answered by osunumberonefan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is and he is trying to see if you feel the same way. I know it's kinda tought but you should just ask him without being judge mental so you can get a 'straight' answer out of him.
2006-11-10 16:18:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if he is testing the water with you and is either gay or curious. If you're like minded, hang out next time he asks. If you're not, then let him know that you're glad for his friendship, but you hope he's joking because you're not into that. Good luck!
2006-11-10 16:13:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋