Hi I am a 22 yr old senior in college. I am a very simple person who finds joy and gets pleasure from the smallest of things. I find it interesting how many people need to do drugs/drink large quantities/smoke/dip in order to feel pleasure. Could possibly be more of an acceptance thing. I do admit when I turned 21 and the months after that I found it calming to consume alcohol. recently though I have started to rethink my mindset in regards to this cunnundrum sp? I have taken a step back and released that i am okay with the person I am probably a few mental things I could do without but other than that im happy. I see people I know constantly chasing women and having sex with different partners after consuming large quantities of alcohol. These same individuals feel like they are on top of the world. I am having trouble understanding where this stems from. When I am around these individuals I feel confused. My roommate is friends with these individuals and I am trying to be
2006-11-10 16:02:01 · 6 answers · asked by Financial Guru 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I need help understading why I would rather sit at home and make a little money and be by myself then hangout with these other individuals.
2006-11-10 16:03:15 · update #1
You shouldn't even be trying to be friends with these people. You sound much more intelligent and mature than they are. Find your own group of friends that have the same frame of mind that you do. If they are lucky and don't get killed before they mature they will understand why you chose not to be apart of there "group". Life is to short to be acting a fool. Keep your head on straight and make a good life for yourself and don't let the little things concern you so much.
Just remember "You Can't Fix Stupid People"
2006-11-10 16:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by kara25701 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply because you are SANE and you have your priorities set straight. seems like you are wiser beyond your years. at times it may seem you miss out on some fun but well only you can decide what to do so if you miss it then do it. if you don't then dont' let it bother you so much. JMHO
2006-11-11 00:13:26 · answer #2 · answered by jcarrera_02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.......you are a person who does not follow without good reason... and it's a quality only a handful of people in every 100 possess... Keep it and look after it,... and that quality will do the best it can, to do the same for you!.....
2006-11-11 00:43:29 · answer #3 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maby you are just maturing and begining to realize who you are as an individual. maby you are finding that the things that makes them happy doesn't make you happy at all. remember we are all individuals with unique outlooks on life.
2006-11-11 00:10:17 · answer #4 · answered by ltonyasfun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayba because you are in a whole different mind set than them and want more in life and tat is fine you dont have to do all that stuff to have friends
2006-11-11 00:08:33 · answer #5 · answered by lene 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S SIMPLE: YOU HAVE MORALS. YOU WEREN'T BROUGHT UP THAT WAY. BE THANKFUL. GOOD LUCK...
2006-11-11 00:08:06 · answer #6 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋