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I have this habit that breaks up all my friendships, and the problem is that I love to argue with people. Especially if I get jealous or angry at them, and its wrecking all my friendships, and I'm finally in a friednship I don't want to lose, but I'm already starting to lose it...what can I do?

2006-11-10 15:57:58 · 8 answers · asked by ezzaphill 3 in Family & Relationships Friends

8 answers

There are different ways to define an argument. I love a good debate with people, but there's also the point that I know when to and when not to argue. Frankly, from what you've said, it sounds like you've got anger management issues. I'd recommend seeing a councellor to help you get control over your impulse to argue about everything. People don't enjoy aggression, especially when you turn it on them.

2006-11-10 16:06:15 · answer #1 · answered by The Mad Shillelagh 6 · 0 0

Write in longhand word for word the question you just typed here on a 3 x 5 note card. Whenever you start telling someone what you think, stop and read every word of the question. Then, excuse your delay in answering them, and tell them what you "really" think.

If you make it until lunch on the first day doing this, you will be a changed person. And it will have been worth it.

2006-11-11 00:13:23 · answer #2 · answered by Happy Camper 5 · 0 0

Identify what it is that is making you jealous or angry at your friends and talk (not argue) with them about it. Get the problem out in the open in a friendly way.

2006-11-11 00:04:52 · answer #3 · answered by Mnementh 4 · 0 0

take an angry management class, walk away and cool down before you say something you will regret..last peice of advance, try talking to your friends about what is bothering you instead of yelling and screaming, you might keep better results and keep your friends :)

2006-11-11 00:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by donttalkjustplay05 4 · 0 0

be good urself and learn to behave & communicate with others.if u want to be in a frnd ship stop this strange habit.

2006-11-11 00:21:18 · answer #5 · answered by chakkara 1 · 0 0

Keep your mouth shut until you learn to communicate your differences.

2006-11-11 00:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by Johnny P 4 · 0 0

GO TO A DOCTOR AND GET ON SOME MEDICATION.

2006-11-11 00:10:06 · answer #7 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0 0

that u look so cool

2006-11-11 02:06:49 · answer #8 · answered by dhartum 1 · 0 0

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