If you could travel back in time and slip a note to your parents, what would you advise or warn them about?

Question

Think maybe, oh....a week before you were born?

Answer 1

I would give them some winning lottery numbers

Answer 2

Dear Mom and Dad,

Hi this is your unborn daughter and I was wondering if maybe you could try to stay off drugs so that Steven and I can have a stable childhood? Dad I don't want the police to come to our house many times to tell me and Mom that Dad tried to kill himself again. That is going to mess with me forever. I don't want to see you fall down the stairs and hurt your back when I am six because you are so messed up you can't walk right.

I do not want the two of you to get a divorce when I am 7 so GO TO counceling. Go to AA.....go to NA....get help Daddy. Because you hurt your family so much.

Mom, don't marry Bill after you and Dad seperate. It will be great because I will gain a brother and the best sister in the world....but Bill will molest her and you won't even know. You turn into a better Mother and take all of us away from him....And we are happy for a while...during this time Dad I would love it if you could pay a little more attention to Steven and I. We love you and miss you and want to see you because when you get your stuff together and get straight we won't be good enough for a while.

Oh yeah Dad...then you and I get really close. You are going to marry a great woman. When you do PLEASE stop working at that trucking company....stay home with your wife and work local. If you don't you will get into a horrible accident that will in the end take your life.

I will miss you terribly and I will feel guilty. Steven will be crushed when he learns that you took him out of the will. Can you specifically leave us some stuff though. Cause when you tell me I can have those things in your safe....I take that to heart and when you die that will be all I want . And I will not get it. I will get a clock...and a blanket and not much more.

Thats all Mom and Dad because I am crying and can't write anymore. Know that I will always love you no matter what mistakes you make.

Love, Mandy

Answer 3

I would tell them to be more careful so they don't have kids. I was a mistake, well not a mistake since they love me and all but I mean I wasn't planned. I think it would have been a lot easier if I hadn't been born, at least not born when I was since my parents weren't prepared for it (financially at least). But if I could only go back a week before I was born I would leave them a note saying "don't move to another country, your daughter will be very unhappy as an immigrant." But it's to late now.

Answer 4

I'd warn my father, don't do the one thing that changed the course of everyone life. Don't do it Dad, please, my mom, my brothers and I need you, don't do it. But it would be when I was an infant, not just before I was born.

Just one event, just one moment in time, changed everything. We'll never know what would've been, we only know what is!! Tragic perhaps, but we are all destined to learn the same lessons, the only things that change are the teachers.

The equation.

EVENT + FORGIVENESS = Unconditional LOVE.

Great question Sam, thanks for asking.

Peace.

Answer 5

Dad you've 2 thoughts - both get to the medical institution now reason you'll bypass over the beginning of your purely daughter, or pay interest to the nurse even as she tells ya that you presently have a daughter fairly of arguing consisting of her. My mum replaced into placed into medical institution over nighttime to get some relax, and the well-being care specialist lived on the block next to medical institution and missed my beginning, and then my dad does not pay interest to the phone call telling him he had a daughter until eventually the nurse pronounced I had purple hair.

Answer 6

Nothing to do with me, actually. Instead, I would beg them to watch their weight and take care of their health and warn of the consequences if they didn't. Mom and Dad are now both type II diabetics, and Step-dad suffered an aortic dissection/stroke caused by high blood pressure coupled with obesity.. I guess I could say he's lucky he made it through alive, but unfortunately he's now blind.

Answer 7

After the baby comes just leave each Be a single parent, put the baby up for adoption anything but do not stay married!

Answer 8

I would tell my mom not to argue with me on june 19 2006 so maybe her heart would not explode

Answer 9

When your first son brings home young women with him from Northen California accept her for who she will become. The mother of your grand children. Don't be cruel to her as she only wants what's best for your son.

Answer 10

I would tell them both that I will be needing them to be present in my life and that if they abandoned me they would regret it for the rest of their lives. Too bad I never got that chance. Good question.

Answer 11

I would slip a note to my dad that read..."Dad, you know that guy named Tom that you work with? Don't EVER bring him to the house and let Mom meet him."